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Don’t think like that
Every parents say that see that boy/ girl scoring more than u
U don’t do any work
My parents also say that
But always remember parents are the one who love u so much in every situation
Siblings do fight with each other
I also fight with my big bro
Don’t think the don’t love or they don’t want to take ur confidence down
Plss don’t think u r not a good daughter

U r a very good daughter

jay @jay12

Listen you don’t think like this

@confusedmind2000

Hello friend,
They say that children should respect their parents, but the opposite is true too. Every parent must acknowledge the unique traits their child has, unlike others. Would your parents like it if you compared them to someone else’s parents? no right?? My aim is not to tell you that your parents are bad, but to tell you that even parents can be wrong- sometimes accidentally or sometimes intentionally, even if they love you. Sadly in our country, children still face physical and verbal abuse by their families, perhaps because they believe that it is necessary and is going on for generations. However, contrary to their aim of making child better, they end up making him/her far from them emotionally and filled up with mental issues.
Dear friend, we all have our own pace of learning things in life, some can cook from early on, while some learn cooking in their 30s. There are many things in which you can be good and many which you don’t know. I believe that you aren’t lazy. You have to understand that your parents love you, but their way of handling the situation isn’t perfect, it doesn’t give any positive output. If you think they will listen, sit one day and calmly explain your concerns and issues, without getting emotional. Also, hear their perspective and try to reflect on them. With proper discussion, it is possible that you get a good solution to which even your parents agree.
If not, then don’t focus on things that harm your self-confidence, don’t listen to those scolds which don’t add up to your skills. Listen with one ear and drain them out from the other. Insults and curses never add up anything in any personality, you have to draw a line somewhere. You would have to take a call on that yourself . You can also consult a therapist which can help you gain a better perspective of things.
Lastly, don’t say that your parents deserved a better child and you should finish yourself. You have been bestowed a life by someone up there to live it for your own being. You have a right to be here. You are here not to impress everyone but to live it fully. Respect your life. You have everything in your control till you are able to breathe, next we don’t know. Don’t see yourself from the lens of your family but developed your own lens. Sometimes our parents don’t understand us, even if they love us. I can relate to you as I myself am in that situation. Love yourself, dude…
You are unique and you have every justification and right to live in this world
Hugs!!🤗

@itsnotmeipromise

I feel so similar. I’m always punished for something so little, never praised for anything good I do. My brother has always been favored. I can never do anything without being worried about what somebody thinks of me. Bless you, I hope you can find help soon.

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