I’m feeling like my boyfriend is cheating on me. The way he is escaping my questions ,but at the same time making efforts (may be just because he likes the way I love him and has a fear to lose that).
On the other hand ,my ex approached me again and I’m feeling a bit attracted to him just because I’m not liking my boyfriend’s changed behavior towards me. So I’m thinking instead putting my efforts (remain loyal in wrong place I guess needs efforts),I should move on.
But ,but ,but I’m not sure if I’m right or not.
I’m just getting an idea that he is cheating on me because of his changed behavior and I can’t discuss over this topic because he’ll definitely get angry on me that I’m baselessly doubting on him .(He slept early tonight ye keh k ki koi ni call kaate Bina e so jate hain lekin vo sogya, he replies late to my texts nowadays,he started escaping my romantic ques.[I asked him our favorite.memory acc. To him] But said ki Kal btaunga, I felt like he wants to reply to someone else’s text and Has developed interest in someone islie Bola Kal btaunga Taki aage koi ques na puchun or ekdm Jane dun without single ques)
Please tell me if I’m overthinking or what if our relationship is getting mature ?
Toh time k sath esi chizein hoti e hain?
Should I cheat because I’m getting feeling ki agr m ex k sath cheat krti hun toh baad m mujhe bura feel ni hoga even if my bf is cheating on me.
Getting worried of partners behaviour is a human nature thing… Worst part is not able to confront about all this with ur partner… If u really feel there is something a miss in the relationship then u need to talk to him… Without knowing hthe truth u moving on with ur ex doesnt make sense… He is ex for a reason…
Yeah ,I understand but if I’ll discuss this with my partner he’ll definitely get agitated and will not respond to this discussion. AND even after making an efforts to start a discussion when he’ll not take it seriously I’ll be frustrated more.
So I’m playing selfish here.I don’t want to lose him(bf) but the kind of attention my ex is giving ,I’m liking it.That’s why I’m thinking what if I cheat him by talking to my ex ,even if my boyfriend is cheating on me I won’t feel bad at last .
Please don’t judge me,just wrote my feelings. I need someone to discuss this and need suggestions.
No there is nothing to judge…see if he is avoiding conversation about it then there has to a something… You can’t keep quiet thinking yaaar Baat karungi toh ladai hojayegi… You have to talk it out… See any guy will give you attention… Its guys nature… Cheating ur boy friend with ur ex just to make urself feel better about him cheating you will make things complicated…sirf ek bande ka faida hoga isse, woh banda tumhara ex
Hey
Do one thing try and not give him that much attention and notice if he notices if he would care he will automatically understand and ask you. And don’t go back to your ex. And best I can advise is clearly ask or tell him your concern regarding him not giving you attention. Ask him if he needs some personal space.
Actually, I have already done it. He says he gets mad when I avoid him. But that I takes it like he needs my likes the way I love him,my gestures for him. That’s why he don’t want to lose me.
But I am feeling at the same time he is texting someone else too,he knows me I’ll not leave him so he is giving time to someone else by avoiding me (sleeping early,relying late to my texts than before ).
I’m really very confused.
Just confront him clearly ask him, whether he is talking to someone else, tell him about you feelings because it will effect your feelings for him. He might become angry for some time but it will be clear.
You shouldn’t cheat on your partner in any case, couse it will backfire later on. I think it’s better to come clean to him about your feelings of him cheating, sure he can get mad, but you will never know any other way. And not knowing is maybe making you feel like you want to cheat. Try talking to him, make him understand your worries
Yeah may be I’m afraid of getting cheated so I’m pre -planing to mask that hurt by cheating on him.
I don’t want to lose my bf. But I’m just liking the attention my ex is giving which is lacking in my bf.
I understand that, i believe it’s a really normal thing to feel. Whatever happens remember, that you want to get out of this feeling like you were fair to him, at leat i would like to. I hope everything turns out great tho
My advice leave both ,if ur gut says ur guy cheats leave him, getting back to x if it not gonna hurt when he leaves ur call…
