I’m engaged for about a year now and about to get married in few months. Still I’m not having regular conversation with my fiance. Is that fine?
Initially I texted her daily at night and would text for sometime after that she’ll tell she’s sleepy and I don’t want to force her to text, so I would agree that we can text tomorrow. Nowadays fiance is busy as her sister came home from abroad for the marriage. When I text her she replies late by few hours sometimes late by day. So I’m texting her only one or two times a week.
Recently I’m texting one of my office friend when I’m not texting with my fiance.
We were talking about some initmate instagram reel and she sent nudes out of the blue.
I’m close with her and we went out on few dates and hooked up few times earlier. We had sent nudes before. But this time I didn’t request her to send. But I didn’t stop her either. Am I cheating on my fiance?
Also, she is asking me to take her out to movies or for a trip. I’m afraid we would have sex again if we go out.
My friend got divorced few months back. Not sure if she hooked up with me because her marriage was going bad or if she liked me.
I want to stop being close with my friend without hurting her feelings. She’s in bad mind state because of divorce and she’s insecure about her looks.
How do I stop this with her and get closer to my fiance.
I know many of you may think I’m a jerk. Yes maybe. But I really don’t want to continue this and be true to my fiance. Please give me some advice.
just say no to your ‘friend’, in my opinion this is cheating and try to ask your fiancé why she is replying so late because if you don’t ask you will never know.
Try to say you just wanna be friends with her because you have a fiancé soon to be your wife.
If I were you I would just try to go to the movies with your fiancee, give her more attention and make every day her best day.
You do not have to cut your best friend out of your life, just see her less then you now do.
I hope I could help and have a great married life😊
Rajshree @rajshreemuthu
Okay, I know you were trying to help your friend out but the whole situation is taking a turn, the best you could do is let her know that you want some more time with your fiance and that this relationship you have with her might disrupt what you have with your fiance, it is crucial you build a good level of trust with your fiance if you want to help this friend out, but before that, you need to understand that your friend is vulnerable and she might really need some attention and real love, just think of you are the right person she can turn to because you already have committed to your fiance and you should do right by her too. So choose wisely how you spend your time with both of them and have an open conversation and discuss what you have in mind because this can become an issue if one of them or you misunderstand the situation. Hope this helped in some way!
