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Oorvashi @osho

Im dealing with my toxic mom everyday, she is 65years and I’m 26… she become very nagging, degrading me, telling how much she suffered to raised up me during my childhood, insulting me and also saying that my father cheated on her after I born. I’m the last one out of 5 siblings. My father passed away last year and for almost 1.5 year I’m working from home… Maybe you all thinks it’s normal but not at all. Don’t ever insult or degrade your kids. If you can’t handle don’t have baby! You’re killing their self confidence, you’re pushing them in anxiety, you’re making them feelings like useless and aimless! I have thought about su**ide because she told me that she regret to give birth to me, should have kill me once I’m born… maybe sounds very silly but the stress level too high… Literally everyday my mom insulting me. Always complaint to sister about me and putting false blame on me! I have confront this to her but she didn’t acknowledge my feelings instead she said I behaving like this due to my work-related stress. She don’t want to accept her mistakes, she want to looks good and innocent, always pray, watching drama and scolding girls anchors/actress! I feels like she is turning into a monster! I can’t leave her alone, she is too old to take care of herself!
So stressed! Real need a hug and some love!

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Anonymous

Hi.
I can’t really imagine what are facing right now… ik u really care about your mother and u want her to be proud of you and you are trying your best to keep her happy … ik u are giving it the best shot … but results are not good … can i suggest you something?
Try to talk to her and tell her that u really love her and care about her …try to end the fights and dont really contribute in fights…be more polite to her … u lost your father and may be after his death your mom is not mentally stable and suffering from depression… may be this can be the case… but ik u can handle the things… please don’t give up …
Can u do something which makes u happy? Like listen to some good music or movies??? Or just a walk ?? Paint ?? Dance? Just give it shot!!! I know u might feel so sad but if u are happy …people around you will be happy too… think about it.
You are important
Please dont give up ,i believe in you💯💜💯🤗

@missdass

Hey, I don’t know if I should call it a similar situation or not. But I am facing the same. I am dealing with toxic parents too. Especially toxic mom. Being a single child sucks! She always blame me that I am very unlucky and would kill her when she gets old. She wants me to get married to a random boy. She doesn’t understand my depression and anxiety attacks.
Hey, I guess we both are facing a kind of similar situation. The only suggestion I could give you is to distance yourself from her. Gradually move away, leave your house. In my case, I can’t leave the house as I’m financially dependent on them and I’m preparing for a competitive exam. The moment I crack the exam I’ll leave the house but God knows before that she’ll get me married to some guy who has a problem with me that I didnt do Btech and chose Commerce.
And, please don’t worry, I’m always there for you. I need support and real friends too!

@missdass

and I know that Talking to her won’t help because some people are born the way they are. They like to control people. The only thing you can do is run. Run away, perhaps you’ll find a better place and a better person one day.

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