I’m dating someone twice my age… I’m 24 if you’re wondering… We met at work.
When we first met he seemed like a nice guy and I actually thought he was younger for his age and everyone at work thought so too. When we started dating I told him I wanted him to meet my parents and it’s been 4 years now and he hasn’t introduced himself still, I tried to set it up but h always chickens out.
When we started dating, he never wanted me near his house. I met his parents, siblings, cousins, friends, and other relatives. But when I finally went to his house the living room, the kitchen, and the other areas in the house were okay, I didn’t understand why he didn’t want me to go to his house before but damn… his own room though was a freaking mess… clothes on the floor, clothes on the basket and more clothes in the cabinet… his tv stand had a lot of things on them that is collecting dust… Since he was bringing me I really thought he could have cleaned a little bit?? and his bed smelled like pissed, which I later found out whenever he goes out drinking with his friends he pees in his sleep, I asked him why does that happen he tells me it’s because he was diabetic?? I don’t freaking know if that is true, to be honest.
It’s been 4 years and everything is still the same… I don’t know why I’m still holding on to this relationship… I’m just really hoping he could change… But should I cut the tie already??
