want help?
May be
can we connect or should we talk here?
We can speak here no problem
okay, so, what seems to be the issue?
As cringe as it may sound, it’s about a boy. We have been talking over socials for months (not very much like couple or anything). We were both interested and wanted to spend some time together so we met for the first time. And we decided we will never see each other again. But when we met something went off and out meet didn’t exactly end on a good note and I’m feeling really bad about it.
oh so was the thing that went wrong your fault?
Not exactly anyone’s fault but we were both so cold at a certain point
oh and just to confirm my idea, it wouldnt work in the longer run right?
Nope. We never intended for it to work. It was certain that we’ll end things after the meeting.
well then dont feel bad about it, thing happen for a reason and everything falls perfectly into place after one thing goes wrong or takes an unexpected turn, so just pray for the better, dont worry too much about what happened and i know youll find someone whos perfect for u
I’m not concerned about that. I just wanted things to be fine, to end on a good note.
well, they didnt and theres nothing you can change about it right? so instead of thinking about the past and potentially ruining your future, focus on yourself
Then do it
Doing
I read about your comment its okay to cry , i feel it is not your mistake , you will get a good partner
I’m not crying because he wasn’t a good partner or I need a good partner. It’s because it didn’t end on a good note and we’ll never see each other again.
That’s better than you both in a relationship and then getting bored with each other. It will end on a more bad note . learn to let go of things. learn to don’t stick with the past and let things go . Do things that you enjoy doing you will move on
who is stopping you
I did cry, Im all good
