I’m always there for him, I want to make sure he doesn’t get pulled back into the dark side because i’m not always going to be there to pull him out. I want to always be there for him but i’m unable to. I don’t know what I would do without him.
Hey,
You concerned about not being able to be there for him shows how loving you are. Make him believe in himself that he is strong enough to overcome this. Don’t be afraid for it will all work out in the end. Please understand that this s slow and gruesome process for one to battle their own thoughts and fears.
Thank you so much, even thugh he doesn’t treat me how I treat him I still love him sm.
Simran @st1199
Hi!
Sometimes it becomes important for one person to be there for the other because we have seen them come out of that place, right? Even when we feel it’s too much and he should also put some effort.
I believe that after a stage when we know he has left that side behind him and is much better and knows who was/is there for him, he should too show some concern/efforts/love that we too feel Oh yeah! He is there for me too. He has noticed and acknowledged everything I did for him, right?
Whenever you feel this way, just be upfront. It helps much better than letting go of the thing and later on, we crib and feel sad about it and he is unaware of the whole fact. Sometimes they know we will be there for them, they start taking us for granted but then we need to make them realize and you will see if that worked or not.
Hi A word of advice from an experienced person.
You will discover this fact easily around you. Not every attraction results into a connection.
And secondly remember the relationships come with an expiry. Sooner you learn both the facts it will be happiness Mantra for the life.
Neither your parents will be with you for forever and neither you will be there with your boy friend or spouse for forever. So be independent and let him be independent. You may help him out with things and when he seeks your help. But if you think you are inevitable for the person then you must wake up.
Piya @piyakaurbajaj
Hey, i know you want to be there for him. But i also want you to acknowledge that we can only be there for other till a certain degree sometimes. We have to let them fight their own battles. I know it might feeling what would you do without him but you have to let your happiness depending on him. You should start doing what you love.
