I'm again feeling very low...my gf cheated on me...and she gave me the reason that when she cried I'm not there for her...It only happens only 3-4 times...but it doesn't mean she has to cheat...due to it... I can't sleep at night...she always blame me for her cheating... I don't know why I pick up her call ..when she calls me...then all the memories... flashbacks disturbs me...and I can't concentrate on anything... I can't hold on my tears... I can't hold on my feelings...its like tsunami to me...it destroys me...

Looks like she is a narcissist. She did a mistake and then blaming you for her mistake is even worse. It means that she doesn’t feel guilty for her actions. She is just playing around. Please stay strong and completely cut her off from your life. Don’t entertain her by picking her calls…because I genuinely feel she is not serious about the relationship with u. I know it’s difficult but please try to move on…such people are very very harmful.

Breakup

I met  one girl from this app. We shared our social media  handles  even we shared our numbers also.. within 3 to 4 hours only we became a good friends. we chatting till midnight's and after 3 days she started avoiding me.. i don't know the reason. Today at evening she kept me in block list in all apps. She trusted me so much... I tried to message her so much.. i have her number. But i felt very wired to call her..! I don't know why she is avoiding me. I have her number i can call her from different number . But still i am feeling very guilty and wired.. to call...! 

Give me some suggestions 🥺

Society

Funny how my girlfriend is telling me that her ex boyfriend dont love her, dont have any care for her and hurting her physically. While i did the opposite showing and telling her everyday how much i love her and planning to marry her soon. But i think she adapted her ex boyfriend’s attitude in a relationship. Getting tired to understand her. Any thoughts?? Dont know what to do

Relationships

She had a breakup

Than she used me to move on from her past relationship. 

We where in relationship for about 8 months

And now it's about 3 months she didn't even call me even a single time. 

Nd now I can't forgot her.  What should I do I can't move on. 


My partner is extremely lazy and is not as enthusiastic as I am about our business which we started an year back she hardly contributes anytime and effort in it. What to do I am really frustrated and when I talk to her about it she gets angry and fights and argues .

Even though we aren't together if she's hungry I make her food and go give it to her, I wait till she finishes eating and then I leave her place, she never says if she's sad, but ik when she will be sad and when she won't, I wanna be there for her, I tried helping her out, but she never wanted me to be there for her, then why did she have to act like she has feelings for me still most days, she's in a relationship with another guy but why does she wanna hunt me down?
I took all the blame remember, I never let u feel bad, and this is what I get in return?
Everytime I leave your place I wish you could wait for me to get on my bike and tell bye to me from top, I miss the good old days, where I did everything for you and all you did was accept it and not give anything back.
I was too blind to realise I was an idiot to believe in everything you said.
You went on cheating on me, did things I never thought you would do and now am stuck with all our memories and you get to roam around with a new guy?
It's never fair, and I think someday you'll realise it, I don't want karma to affect you, I just want you to realise how much I did for you and no one's gonna do so much to you.


3am Thoughts

I dont want to do it anymore. I want to end it all. The moment I needed her the most, she left. She took her space to move on while still giving me the hope that we'll be back together. And then she dumped me. How can I move on and love myself when I gave her all my love, happiness and literally all of me? I am in college and havent attended classes in a week, my grades are falling, i cant eat or sleep. Can a girl tell me her perspective on this? 

A few days ago I said something to my girlfriend while arguing and it hurted her feelings , she said she needs some time off from me . I apologised a couple of times and yesterday when we were talking she was kind of hinting that she might break up with me and she still needs some time . 

I am feeling so bad like I just say stupid shit without thinking,  I really miss her and I want her back I messed up , idk what to do, I just want one more chance . I love her so much .

I feel i am tired of living i am tired of bearing this pain since we ended our 7 year relationship after fighting for long 1 year its just 3 month and as the tym its getting harder for me handle this pain i loved her with all everything i have so does she but last year april 2020 when everything seems perfect we had that unfortunate argument which was beacuse of her miss understanding and we just didn’t able to get over it we faught every 3rd day since that happened i tried to everything us from stop fighting we were fading and it was visible our conversation are dying she stopped trusting me she was falling apart and i tried everything I wasn’t able to hold her after everything happened we finally borke up in December at first I thought this  will gonna make things better for both of us but as the time is its getting difficult everyday i don’t feel any motive of working , or taking care of me , of living i just want to end my pains i feel like just disappear 

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