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Anonymous

I’m a girl who has 5 younger siblings. I will be 19 soon. And right now I have to choose a very big decision in my life. I have got a chance to go to saudi arabia for my higher education. But in the first 2 years, i will have to spend my time doing arabic courses to learn arabic. So by then, i will be almost 21. And i want to study in medical field so my studies will be last long for almost 9/10 years. And i will be having to get marry to someone by age of 23 or earlier than that. So will it be really a good decision for me to choose to go to saudi. It’s just that i feels like everything will be slower if i choose to go there. Plus my mom isn’t that strong now.

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Anonymous
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Aap maat jaiye saudi ji

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Anonymous
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Sorry. I don’t understand hindi

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If you feel this is a big opportunity for you and you really want to grab it, go get it girl. Or else when you would age and will still be burdened with responsibilities around you and never had a way to stand for your own choices and needs, you will regret throughout your life and regret really hard. So maybe take a decision which won’t result in you regretting.

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Anonymous
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Thnks. I’m still struggling to decide πŸ˜…

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Yeah I get it take your time to decide. But I would say don’t make any decision based on guilt or pressure influenced by others in your life. Or else later in life the thought of how your life could be so much more and better could eat you up.

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Raza Khan @thegentleguide

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Go for it, it’s for your future and will open up several fronts. All the best.

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