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user _03 @user_3

I’m a DU student, but I’m unsure about my future. I used to do well in school, but I didn’t work on my personality. Now, I feel shy and unsure compared to my classmates. They seem smart and confident, while I struggle to speak up. I’m thinking of taking a government exam, but I’m scared I might fail. Should I try or play it safe?"

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& what other options you have?
I had left DU, cz of this govt exam stuffs.

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Anonymous

Which government exams are you preparing for?

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nope you got my reply wrong

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Anonymous

Listen carefully, earlier you didn’t work on your personality…so now is the time, it is not too late. If your struggle in speaking and putting your point etc. then now is the time, thoda struggle kro yahi sahi samay hai, khud pe kaam karne ka. Govt. Job ki preparation kro ya na karo …it is up to you to decide ki studies k sath preparation balance kar paoge ya nhi, kyuki outcome me failure soch k kabhi preparation nhi kar paoge, ye fact hai, positive raho pehle khud tab preparation kro. Per personality pe kaam karne ka ye sahi samay hai.
Kyuki govt. job lagne k baad bhi, achi personality he kaam aegi.

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Thankyou for your answer 😄.

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Anonymous

You are a DU student ,congrats first of all.
I guess students are very confident in there.
When I was in btech colg of my state ,I had a very personality I also feel bad about it.i was not a fun girl …in class every time i felt insulted .& all of them were nice no one in my class make fun of me.
It just me who was not able to adjust.
it was like hell of 4 yrs

Coming to u, I would suggest we cant change ourself but improved .
So u have to record video on fon ogfyours :try to speak on any topic like related to ur study …daily soon u will see some changes.
If you are shy introvert just embrace it …
Dusre ki Tarah kyu banna .

Naina Talwar @no_one8

Playing it safe would take a person nowhere in life, try it… It would be worth the risk trust me, even if you fail… You would have nothing to lose,but 50% possibly to win, but if you don’t try at first place due to fear of failure and rejection, the possibility to success will be 0 anyways… And personality will develop the more you interact with the world and explore it, just be yourself and see the magic!! I’ve been facing the same as yours for a long time, but I’m recovering after having followed these strictly!! All the best buddy👍😇

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