I’m a 25 year old dude and getting a divorce.  What the hell do I do with myself.  When does it stop feeling like trash lol

I am really sorry that there is nothing I can do but tell you that I am sincerely sorry for your loss. 
So, Do you want to talk about it? 

Divorce

Grow through what you go through,let that sink in,the lesson will keep on returning until it is learned 

3am Thoughts

Saw a groom crying after seeing his bride 🥺 I know i won't be ever this special for anyone ever. 

FOMO

How to deal with narcissistic husband ...I fed up with apologising him even for his mistakes..always play blame game..no intimacy neither emotionally there for me..

Anxiety

All the thing is described in my @ name ... 

Here it is. I’m from Belgium and left for Japan where I my husband lived. I left my family and country for him. We married one year after I’ve got in Japan. I was 20 he was 27. 

I waited almost 7 years to have à proper wedding, that’s was a total disaster. 
The place where we made the wedding delayed a lot the hair set trial and make up. Finally we found out that the hair and make up artist couldn’t even don’t a simple ponytail not a proper liner wing. 
I had to don’t my hair and make myself the day of my wedding ... can you believe it ...? The day you’re supposed to be taken care of.. 
my husband spent the whole ceremony talking to his friend, he didn’t looked at me once not told me I was beautiful. He just told me «  yah your hair and make up is same than usual » YEAH ?! Maybe because I had to do it myself looser !!! 
He decided that we would arrived together at the guest room ... so no bride walk for me... I felt like he wanted all the spotlight on him ... 
he didn’t even put the ring on my finger ... the wedding staff forgot to make us sign the wedding no agreement paper which was the most important part for me .... 
how come ??? I spent all my money on this wedding and I feel like it was the worst day of my life ... it’s been over a Year now but I’m still making nightmare about it and feel so depressed... I feel like I will never have a proper wedding ... it was the dream of my life now I’m 27 and feel so old.. Sometimes I’m even thinking of getting a divorce even tho I love my husband just to get a proper nice wedding ... 

Marriage

I m just upset about so many things.. today was like a nightmare.. I can’t explain whole thing but would like to speak it out.. I had an horrible fight with my in laws .. but the best part my husband was on my side all the time.. he didn’t Lsn a word against me.. I m happy that he fought for me but he fought with his parents for me.. misunderstanding created at home can’t be solved easily it will take time to heal.. but my mind is running with so many questions.. just putting it down ..

How do you stop thinking that I m not judged my in laws for the things I said??
How to solve problem btwn the parent and the child caused Becoz of me?
Standing up for yourself is it worth the cause of image you create in front of in laws?? 
Supporting your husband for everything he has done but at cost of losing all respect from in laws is fine??
Is the father right to abuse his child just Becoz it hurts his ego?
Is it right to lose temper on father for not respecting your mother? N taking stand for her even if she’s wrong??

Can father be calm and heal the matter normally rather than just screaming on child?



Child Abuse

my emotions are at their peaks right now..found out my husband watches dirty things on the net..he said he would change and give him some time..its been five months and i caught him 4 times after he said he would change..what shoulld i do?

Addiction

Hey all, 
I have a few things to share and get it out of my chest. My husband whom i married 3 months back is different now. Different in the sense that his behaviour, the way he talks to me, the way he thinks of me. I am the chill kind of person and he’s the serious type. He used to enjoy my company but now it seems like it annoys him. He said to me yesterday - ‘stop acting like that’ and i was like ‘you liked me for this, i was always like this’ and he said now you have to change. I told him I’m not going to change for anyone in the world and he said he will change me and was so certain while saying it. I like this version of me and i dont want to change. Maybe i will but when i will feel like changing, not because he wants me to change. When i told him strictly that NO, i will not change, he got upset and stopped talking. I didnt talk as well. Later, He came and acted like everything is normal and nothing happened. I dont know what i should do about this situation.

I am kinda in a tight spot right now. I am newly married and we are having the best time of our lives together. However, because I was so used to having my husband around all the time as he works from home. Suddenly his work has started resuming and he has to go out once or twice a week. I feel absolutely lost when he leaves and wait restlessly for him to return. But when he comes back my ego doesn't allow me to show him how much I missed him n act as if I am fine. This breaks me so much. What shd I do 😩

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