I’m a 21 year old female. My mother and brother constantly body shame me saying things like “you look like a skeleton” and “you look weak” etc. Yesterday things really got to me so I told them that enough was enough and that they had to stop commenting on my body. My mother then went on to hit me and my brother told me to leave the house. My father calmed everyone down. I don’t have anywhere to go since my education is still going on and everyday I’ve to face them. I don’t know how to behave or how to react to things now.
mayur @mayurhingemusic
Simply say you don’t like it…
Just one more year. U will be out of that family. Be brave and stand up for yourself.
That’s sad. Maybe you calmly talk to your mother and brother. Still they don’t change you better pack your bags and be ready to move out once you finish your education. But don’t let anyone mean anyone to belittle you for any reason.
It was bound to happen given they always body shamed you. It’s a normal reaction.
On a side note if you feel you’re skinny , then put on some weight. Being skinny is troublesome. I have experienced it first hand.
Once you put weight nobody does it anymore
Hey gurl, ryt now saying any solution seems like impossible but you need to be strong you have come this far and you have a lot to go. Honestly I’m 25 and been in and abusive environment even passive abuse ryt now too. I lost my father 6 months ago and i just have a stepmother and she and her family everyone knows how much i respect ger and support her but she is passively abuses me, behaves to me very disgustingly i do have a job i could walk out but i loved my father and he left everything in her name to protect me. My own birth mother abused me when ever she had a bad situation and had to fight, she took all her frustration at me and hit me to blood and blue. If i can ignore and grow to become stronger and be patient enough to wait for my time of growout why not you? It’s a very tender time as you are still completing your education but don’t lose your mind hold it and just focus on your growth. Hugs - a stranger 🦋
