I'm 29..
Want to marry the love of my life. He's a great guy, but he's busy all the time.. a workaholic.
My parents like the guy, but can't get over the face that he's sindhi and I'm marwari.

He loves me back too.. Mann bhar ke.
But, I just feel alone sometime..
And don't know what to do 🥺

Divya

New here.. forgot to turn anonymous on 🤣😅

Google map ke zamaane mein raasta pucha nahin jaata

Sindhi and workaholic? Are these two words always together? The last girl I dated was the same, had tons of feelings for her, but she broke up cause she felt as if I was interfering her work life by caring too much. Shit happens. 
But good to know that at least he's taking a stand to be there for you, by accepting to marry you. See, this loneliness is scary, so I want you to keep yourself engaged in some or the other activities, movies, series, books or anything. Just when you start feeling you're along, get busy. Or reach to a friend to talk. It helps. ❤️

Love

Geez, I don't know where to start or its because I never see myself writing this  -_- anyways, AM I CRAZY??
 I think I am falling for someone whom I barely talk and knew. Omg. I am new to this company and I am way too far from them (it means I am working for them, from another country) then I met, this guy over a video call meeting and wtf, i just found myself stalking him on his social media accounts (yes at first, i am attracted on how he looks good but upon stalking him *geez, this is me being creepy, yikes!* and yep I admire him from knowing he's hobbies (he is a football captain) then being fun with his sisters and friends. I think he's a nice guy. BUT on the other side he seems a little harsh on me when he's giving me a task :( I think, he doesn't like me (even as a co-worker). Every time I have concerns or questions about the task he gave me, I think he's fed up most of the time and sometimes he's not responding (I connect with him for work, just PURE work) so yeah, tell me what to do so I can stop this craziness and not being me so sensitive over him.  -___- (btw, we're same age-mid 20's) 

Confusion

I went on date with this guy and it went well but after our date we were talking casually and i asked him if we are going on a second date he said 'yes yes after some time' then we were talking and recently he went out with his sister to celebrate brother's day but when i asked him what he was doing he said 'out on a date'. Should i text him back and ask him out again? 

I feel i am not able to move on or maybe i am not able to ACCEPT the fact that its over. I am not loving anything, i am not able to laugh, whatever i do just to show my family, is superficially. Inside i feel so empty, he is figuring things out on his on, he is accepting this breakup at a bright note. I am not. I still want him to do everything the way he used to. He wont even text now, which we used to do regularly, he avoid calls because he wants to move on. That’s good for him. But i am
Just not able to accept. 
How to stop expecting EVERYTHING from a person who was a BIG DEAL to you, whom i loved so much and i love him still.
I feel so empty without him. Its so hard to even see any future without him, i feel so lost like i dont even feel if i HAVE MY OWN LIFE. I feel nauseous. Whenever i try to play some sport, i feel nauseous and my stomach starts burning because with my heart so heavy, its literally hard to do anything at all.
I dont want to feel this way 😣

I was best friends with him before we started to be in a relationship since last year Nov, we moved in together had a great time cooking and cleaning and being a part of each other’s life. Everything happened so quick maybe because we were best friends. 

In feb, he decided to move to a different country ( Spain ) and he left. Long distance was hard. From being a part of his day to day life to him forgetting to talk to me for days, left me feeling hurt. I tried communicating and telling him how I feel but it always ended in a fight, he used to block me on every platform and after a week or two. 

And he would come back again, this happened for multiple times. In the month of March on my birthday he didn’t even call me to wish me ( we were on good terms then ) it hurt me a lot. 

After a week he said he wants to breakup and he can’t do this anymore. He stopped contacting me and replying to me. I was devastated and for a change I went to visit my family who live in a different country after 45 days I came out strong and more focussed on my life 

When I travelled back and resumed my work, he contacted me wanting to have dinner. So I cooked him fav meal and we had a good conversation. And he said I love you and I said it back. I didn’t realise I was still in love I thought I moved on and I was at a happy place but indeed. We started kissing and making out and he said he can’t be in a relationship anymore bc he wants to focus on his career and life right now. Me being a supportive gf I said I would wait for him until he wants a relationship until then we both can focus on our career but he denied he spoke about marrying someone else down the road and having kids and he said I’m being impractical and I’m living in my fantasy world. He said he came to tell a final goodbye to me. And that he was sorry. I was so confused if that’s the case, why would he say I love you and get close to me ? I mean him ghosting me was a clear sign of goodbye why should he meet me and tell that to me in person. He said he wants to be friends but I really can’t and I denied. 

What hurt the most, is eventho he knows that people from my past had called me emotional and sensitive, and he knows how much that crushed me yet, while leaving he said I’m sensitive. 

And now he moved to the UK ( which wasn’t the plan ) but I guess Spain didn’t work out. He is back to ghosting me again. 

Im breaking again and I can’t afford to. From a guys point of view, what just happened? 
And how do I move on from this. 
I work 730 to 1130pm and I have my thesis so I’m super busy but this thought keeps bothering me all day. Any inputs or support will help
 Thanks for reading this post. 

Relationships

I'm feeling bit okay today then yesterday I'm healing and loving myself bit more everyday. But I miss my bf Soo much . It's just a day we are not talking to each other . We mutually decided to take break. But I can't I feel Soo lonely . There are so many things I want to tell him but I can't . Because Ive to respect his decision .I've to give him his time to heal . Because of my mistake he is hurt . I hope he forget and forgive me for all that I've done . And we can start again everything . I wish we get back together . Because I love him so much 

Boyfriend

It feels so wierd to reconnect with people who were sp close to you at some point right? Even if you try to reconnect it doesn't happen sometimes. There is a senior of mine who was very close to me, he was like a mentor to me. We use to talk alot about crazy stuff and I was always sure that no matter what happens he will guide me. But last year after October or something I suddenly stopped talking with people as i was in a kinda situation where i wanted to just be away from everyone. Due to which I lost people,friends. After like 6 months I talked to him again but it was not like before. I mean even when i was in that period of not talking to anyone, he never contacted me too, may be he was busy too. But here I feel guilty of not talking first, he is a very good guy and I respect him alot. I want to talk with him just like before. 
Its not the first time, there was this girl who was my very close friend, we were like best friends. I use to visit her parents and be with her, go out for movies and all. Later she moved abroad but still we were in touch, she cam back to india for holidays and we were supposed to meet and a shocking news of my mom death came to me and i had to go to my hometown. I told her everything, she went back to abroad and told me to contact her when am all good. But i was in depression and didn't wanted to talk or bother anyone and even she never contacted me at all even to ask about my status. After 5 months of not talking I messaged her and she sounded so different like a stranger. In that meantime alot has changed in her life and also mine but she didn't say anything. 
I don't understand is it my fault?? Why do i lose people?? 

I don't think being friends with ur ex is necessary 

3am Thoughts

so, i have no friends atm only a boyfriend so needed someone to talk to about things, i’ve been going through something quite weird and confusing w my boyfriend and i just feel like i’ve turned into a person i never wanted to be, i’m just constantly thinking what if he’s thought about breaking up before, what if he thinks there’s more attractive girls than me, what if he’s doing things behind my back, i just feel like i constantly have to ask him questions so that i have reassurance but that just makes me feel controlling, just needed someone to talk to so any reply would help

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