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I’m 29 Male, I’m talking with a girl, in a way I’m seeing a girl, who is 19 year old, I really had bad traumatic relationship history in past, and this girl is always there for me, but I’m turning toxic for her. I obviously cannot give her anything in long run, but I don’t want to stop talking to her. What should I do? I need some genuine opinion

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@karma123
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Just stop talking to her if you are not seeing future with her because it will affect her own future because she is just 19 she is not even graduate and this will be good for both of you :)

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Anonymous
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Trying but we both are attached now

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Anonymous
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She is not so mature enough to think as you do about future either wait untill she builds her own career or move on.

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

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If you cannot see any future with her than I think that you should stop talking to her and start distancing yourself slowly and gradually from here.
Secondly, if you are saying this thing that you do not see any future with her by just considering the age factor. Then I think you should rethink about this decision again. Because if you love her, then age doesn’t count anywhere. It’s just a number.
I hope it helped you out, for more detailed discussion you can always book a session.
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Psychologist Harmanpreet K

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Anonymous
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That’s not cool of you bro

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Anonymous
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Why made u being toxic to her

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Anonymous
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It’s just the age gap, I say things which she don’t understand and I get pissed badly and abuse her

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Anonymous
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It’s not like that na … If u being her brother … u should have make her understood in patience…
But in this wtever relationship name … U re being rude bcs she is not getting ur words

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Anonymous
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And who give u the rights to abuse her

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Anonymous
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I understand, thankyou for your opinion.

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Anonymous
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I have been through almost the same problem. I met a guy 4 years ago. He made clear that there is no future for us. But we become very close emotionally. I tried ending contact with him several times when I realised that there is no point in dating someone with no future. But I just couldn’t. Because I fell in love with him. 4 years later here I am trying to get help to move on from him. I can’t blame him. Because he never hide anything from me. But whenever I tried to end contact with him he never let me. I am the one struggling now. 4 years of trauma and regret. So , if you are 100% sure there is no future with her., talk to her. Make this very very very clear. And try to end contact. But talk to her. Communicate. Be gentle. Because it hurts. I know exactly how it feels. Only if she is in love with you. But if she is also okay with the no future thing it’s totally cool as well.

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Anonymous
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Heyyy I wanna ask you some questions…
I mean I wanna talk to you…if you are okay about it???

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