i’m 25 year old.i had 3 breaksup in past 4 years. 2 with same guy and 1 i just had last week.
he said he want freedom in relationship i did him as much as i can give. we had a best time when we were together and for business work he has to go out of town and have to be there for while so it was long distance for past 4 months. in 4 months we met 2 times one time he came to town and 2nd i went there. everything was okay but things got out of hands. everytime i’ve to be the relationship tutor for us. i was tired to explain him every time. so i wanted a break from us and asked him to rethink abt us but instead we broke up. all my frnds are being judgmental and telling me to do arrange marriage. and i’m tired of my frnds too. they think love marriage is not for me. surrounded by lot of people yet i feel lonely. and all im doing is trying to focus on my carrier, keeping my self busy in some actives. and worst pain is i’m losing my bestfriend bcz my boyfriend is used to my best friend. i can’t share this feeling. and don’t know what to do anymore.
hoping for best. and trying my best here to be positive about everything. but at the end of the day that positivity turns into negativity and keeps me up all night doing nothing but overthinking and i’m not able to stop thinking. and its affecting my health. i used to the same work which this platform is providing. being kind to people and helping them out giving cheerful advice and it actually helped them it turns out when my time came nobody is there for me anymore. i didn’t asked anything in return while helping them and now they’re all okay except me
May be stop being in to relationship and concentrate on carrier you’re in peak age to set your life, and also don’t force anyone when they are not interested that not gonna work
It is what it is can’t change soo please stop begging someone, you got some value don’t lose that and don’t degrade yourself.
yes i’m trying here to focus, and not begging him to be with me. its just that i miss the friendship we had before relationship.
Do you even understand
That you needing someone when they don’t need you,and living in a trauma like this
Do you deserve all this pain?
