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I’m 22 and I decided to change my life now. I have no one to support me. My parents fight, they have been fighting their whole marriage. My brother and I can’t take it anymore. We’re snapping. It’s difficult. I feel like I’m so numb to the pain but I’m scared my family isn’t. I don’t want to lose anyone. I know this too shall pass, but please tell me when.
If anything is going through a similar issue or who would like to help me out. Please reply.

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anshdhsj

Hey, I can help you.
I understand what you are going through, and it definitely is tough. However, all you can do at this point is accept reality, and understand why they are fighting. Alternatively, you can try to talk to them about why they are fighting, and try to sort things out. However, I don’t know how feasible this is.

If you are looking to have a detailed conversation, let me know.

Anonymous

Thank you for understanding. I am just so tired of trying to understand them and trying to talk to them. They have both hurt each other so much that there is nothing for me or my brother to do. I’m exhausted.

anshdhsj

Hey, I hope I had a solution to this. But I am afraid, I don’t. Maybe the best way out is to leave.

Anonymous

You are not alone in this buddy…i dont have anyone either …to talk…to spend time…there are so many people around me but still i feel so alone…all i have with me is my phone…and whenever my parents fight i feel blank…like it doesn’t gonna end well…but what you can do is what makes you distracted frm all this shit…like watching some series…writing stuffs…songs …just stay happy…!!

Anonymous

Hi, thanks for replying. It helps to know that I’m not alone, it really does. Especially when I see all other families around me being perfect. I can’t share this with my friends because they can’t and won’t understand. Thanks for the tip buddy… I will just watch movies until the storm passes.

Anonymous

im glad i could help you dude just stay happy and keep working😉…peace out✌️

Anonymous

Hey, I am not sure if I will be able to help you, coz I myself am going through something like that. But I want you to know that I understand what you are going through. All you can do is just focus on your life, work towards achieving all that you want. I know its hard to care about things sometimes, so u need to channel that to achieving your potential. There are many messed up things around, try to be celebrate every tiny achievements, that will give a purpose, something to look forward to , something to make you happy. You will make through this and appear stronger on the other end

Anonymous

Hey, thanks for replying. Right now I am exactly hoping to do that… focus on my career. But hurdles like these make me question why I am even focusing on my future when my present is a chaos. I will definitely keep your words in mind and try to celebrate every little achievement. It helps knowing that you can understand me. Thank you

Anonymous

Difficulties have a way of making us feeling that whatever good we are working towards isn’t worth the effort. But I promise that once you get through it , you will be thankful to yourself for not giving up. I wish you all strength to push through this🤗