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i’m 15, and i entered to highschool this year. Since junior high school I had problems with my self-confidence, I don’t have an attractive appearance, I have a lot of pimples on my face, and it’s getting worse now. Looking at my friends, I am very jealous and insecure, they have good body proportions, and clean faces, and it seems that many people are attracted to them

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@kusum

Dear friend
Yes looks do matter a lot
Looks do mean something but it cannot mean everything…
Being jealous or envious is obvious n very normal
But it willnot help u that much…

U know what
Beauty lies in eyes of beholder
Yes ppl are attracted by looks
But an attractive personality is much more alluring…

Be soft be good be amiable n see you will find ppl who will genuinely like you.
Like your heart
Beautiful heart is very captivating…

Regarding your acne problem
You make try out some home remedies
Also avoid eating oily food
One suggestion
Keep a bottle of dabur rose water
Just soak little rosewater in cotton n apply it with cotton everynight on your face n go to sleep…

You try using himalaya neem face wash

With face wash or regular soap just wash your face 2-3 times in a day
Especially when you return home from outside

Cleansing your face properly is must to fight acne.

If possible n required with help of elders in family visit a dermotologist or any general doc

Good luck
Take care …

N remember always

That you are very very beautiful

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Simran @st1199

Hey!
When I was in 8th class, my acne started in and I thought its just the puberty stage and it will go automatically. Till 12th it wasn’t gone and at some point, I was frustrated because everybody else’s asking was getting clear by drinking water/some homemade nuskas. But nothing worked on my skin.

After 12th, I decided to go to the dermatologist and see what he has to offer me. I applied creams and everything and then left it when it was fading away. And, then it came back again. I went again and to date, I am using his recommended creams and my face is clear and in a much better position.

What I want to tell you is, everyone has different skin and not everything works the same. You could try what works best on your skin and take that treatment. I took it seriously after my 12th class, before that I was least interested because it’s a part of life, and hell anyone has to do with that. Enjoy that stage man. Never give a fuck to someone who sees your pimples. It’s a puberty thing and men have it too btw.
If you compare yourself to everybody else you will never be at peace rather focus on how you can improve yourself for your own growth. 💕

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