If you are in a relationship and if you start to feel just you only are obsessed and curious about him and his life and what he does, and this isn’t reciprocated, should you start to act like you also don’t have any interest in his life and wait to find out if he has any interest in yours?
Exactly, that’s the early smartness !!
But it’s really annoying when he is in his place ( by not giving a shit about me and my life) and he comes and says " kuch chize tumhe pata nahi chalna chahiye it’s for our own better" and stuff like " main apni mann marzi ka kuch kar nahi sakta kya" are broo I want you to do whatever gives you happiness I just want you to tell me about it at least.
Waah !
What m getting is…uski priorities set hai !
Tum apni dekhlo
I think if I equally feel that he gives a damn about me too, my obsession over him would decrease:) is this true?
But he doesn’t :)
What do they think of themselves yaar😭 how can we save ourselves from this obsession?
No God can save us from this. It’s we who should do something about it. Let’s be tough and give them the same behavior they give us.
Your thinking is going in a right direction, you also must be selfish at this point too.
Think abt it. Take your time and take your call then. You seems sensible enough.
How long has it been since you started to do this? How are you doing since then? Are you still curious about what they’re doing and all?
Thank you so much, stranger ♡
Have an honest conversation with her. Sit and talk to her. Tell her what’s bothering you and be on the same page.
God bless you,
Just have to start thinking abt yourself now.
If you wish we can connect on chat :)
God bless you both the strangers who are going through this thing, messaging u both !
Tum dono strangers ka apne partner k sath ji bhi problems h vo jaldi solve hojaaye
You’re so very kind. You also want to connect?
Just DM you ig.
Which kind of things??
But I’m his girl, he should be interested in me too, right?
No. That is a bit childish in my opinion. Always communicate with your partner. Tell him/her what you feel. Your partner can’t read your mind. And we have diffident ways of showing our love. Learn about the different love languages. Know yours and your partner too. Discuss it together. It will improve your relationship if both are willing to make things work. Don’t drown yourself in overthinking.
Okay I’ll try this, for sure. But even after communicating if he does the same or tells me stuff which hurts me what to do about that :(
You know? He can be so heartless! I was crying I told him and his reply was " meri wajah se nahi royi ho, khudki wajah se royi ho"
Ok. Consider if it is still worth staying in relationship or not. Its up to you
Okay thank youu!
Invading personal space too much destroys relationships and friendships
I don’t get into his
It was just general
