If you are a male and you seriously want to get rid of love feelings for a girl, then say this:
I want to get detachment from her. Her love is poison for me. I love myself. I want to set her aside from my thoughts. I belong to no girls. I don’t want to take the responsibility of a boyfriend/husband. My feelings for her are temporary. I don’t want to get bound by her. She is the big black snake of selfishness who has bitten me. That’s why I affirm myself every time that I love her but in actuality, I don’t really love her. I want to burn the concept of love with respect to her. She and her love which I am experiencing is not real when I believe that experience to be love. If I say I am detached from her, then I am so. I don’t have a desire to get married to her. Okay, I experienced a strong feeling with her but I don’t want to belong to her. I want to give up the idea that I love her. Before saying, I love her…I will add a question mark after it “Do I really love her?”
I don’t want to make an effort for her, it’s best that I learn to ignore her. Only small minded people fall in love with the opposite gender.
I want to stay away from her because her love is conditioned, changes with respect to time, can be formed & destroyed, movable from one person to another, fathomable, Perturbable (as she used to give mixed signals - so it’s confusing).
That’s why her love for me is False and this is the truth. I don’t want to fall back into this illusion of love.
There’s also some other great things which I can experience apart from patch up and break up.
Before experiencing love with her, I was happy and alive, so I should make up my mind that I can live without her.
Sunne main acha hai but vo ek smile karegi aur main fir pighal jaaunga.
toh aisa samjh ki voh tujhe fasaa rahi hai yaa phir tera firki le rahi hai.
