If a certain part of them is still missing themselves when you’re with them, you’re a burden that’s being carried untill to them both become unbearable, they missing themselves and you being a burden.
The more you try to lighten yourself up the heavier the burden gets. The heavier the burden gets the more they miss, the other them.
You’re just being carried till you couldn’t be anymore.
Yourself will be the most dangerous of all threat to you.