IDK what exactly I am feeling right now. well, I am 17YO. And ever since my parents got married all they had constantly is chaos. after 1 year I was born. My father never took any responsibility for me/ mom, he never did anything that made me love him. instead, I dislike him. Just for my sake, my mom sacrificed 18years of her life with him. meanwhile, she tried to suicide and domestic violence took place right under my presence. recently I convinced my mom to get divorced, it was better not to have a father than having him in that position. Mom got a piece of judgment stating certain rules but the marriage still exists for some reason. According to that my father was supposed to pay me a certain amount and do the rest of my things equally shared with mom but mom will be the fosterer, not him. last year October 10th, at 10:00 pm we left that home…he didn’t even bid goodbye and I didn’t have any feelings either…till now he hasn’t given me a single penny and now he has gone to his home town…today we just got to know that he is getting married or some sort of similar function is going on in his house…IDK how am I suppose to feel? he just didn’t pay any compensation, ruined my mom’s and my life…mom is struggling to upgrade her life and raise a teenager while he…I don’t think this is fair…mom is helpless…she is having no one else than me and I have no idea what to do for her…I literally need some help to figure out what should I do. my father is rich but he proved himself as poor in front of the court and now he is capable of a second marriage and not completely settle our thing, and mom is so generous that she is not interested to go behind it and file a case. give me some advice
I can totally feel you !!! Cz mybe me and you are probably in same shoe rn!!! More and more power to you💕tbvh idk what to say, srsly just lots of love to you and take care of your mom… nd jst incase you need to dscs smthng more just ping me 💕
I have no idea who you are…but reading this itself is spreading a positive vibe. but should I give complaints and go behind this or just leave it…because my father may not disturb me now…but someday he may come back to mess up…i get all those nightmares and stuff
Sanket @sanket
What should you do? Study hard, get a good job, earn money and settle mom this is the only ideal and good path, no other stress, no thoughts about your dad just you, your mom and the future, its that simple
well…thanks for that advice… it’s kinda motivation to focus on my game and do better!
Sanket @sanket
Hey, I guess it also sounds a bit harsh, sorry for that. It really must be very hard to be focused, while such disturbing scenarios happens
I can suggest a point of view, keep trying without having major expectations and try to bring variety in your approaches.
After a certain amount of hard work, you will surely see something
thanks again for visiting my problem once again and going through it, first of all, your first reply was never a harsh reply cause yes I do have to stay on my game and try harder, and yeah distractions do come and I am supposed to try, try and try to get up from every fall and rise. When there are people like you around the world, this world seems beautiful.
Sanket @sanket
Thanks for your kind words, it’s not people like us actually, you are choosing to take the help and fight, you are showing the strength here.
And never refrain yourself from seeking the help, we all do need help
Hope it works out for you ❤️❤️❤️ hope you become sooo successful that you bring truth to all your mom’s desire and happiness …all the best neirin