idk they say that girls are the ones who are quick to catch feelings but in my experience, it’s always the guys. it’s like being friends with a guy is impossible because they don’t ever want JUST friendship 

shouldn’t be like that though should it 

i mean i do, but it ruins the friendship. it’s not the same which ultimately sucks 

I want friendship only since i know myself that either i will ruin the relationship or i don't have time to invest in a relationship....

If you set boundaries with men they do understand (if they want to understand). Guess it helps if you let them know you’re only looking for friendship vs something else. But ofc there’s a fine line between just being friends and being something more than. Also, if they do start sending out hints then want something more, just reminding them that friendship is more important for you vs the opposite 

3am Thoughts

I walk with my 3 friends , I bend down to tie  my shoe laces , then get up and find them far ahead.
Why should this life have to be so painful 

I came to know that my gf had went to a hotel room with a guy and that guy kissed her and touched her sexually she says that she was not unable to differentiate good touch and bad touch and later she blocked him.I understand that it was her past and it has nothing to do with our relationship but still it makes my heart numb to hear that and i can't stop that thought coming to my mind again and again and i think it will be difficult for me to get physical with her at any level what should i do?

Anger Issues

Coolest thing you can do in your life is just not care. To mind your own business  find things you're excited about make choices for yourself and not for anyone else
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I kinda feel sometimes unhappy sad for no reason 

Does anyone here have Bipolar Depression? I think I may have it but I am unsure.

Depression

I feel like confessing my love to my crush.....we kinda had a rough past which was two years ago

But we are fine now...we talk to each other , but some parts of the conversation seem like he's giving me hints, it would turn out amazing if he also has feelings toward me, but what if he just wants to be my friend

To find out , I need to tell him what I feel like, should I or should i not HELPPPPP HAGDHSJ😭

Anxiety

Iss Diwali, yeh dil sirf itna chahta hai ki iska dard kam ho jaye, iska bhi koi apna ban jaye..

I think a lonely person feels most lonely on a festival because a festival, be it of any religion, race or country, at it's core is a celebration of togetherness and when you don't have someone to be together with even when surrounded by a crowd and see everyone is with atleast someone, it seems your heart is being squeezed, squeezed just enough that you'll keep breathing but at the same time it feels there is no oxygen left to breathe in and every breath just hurts more than the last one and you literally feel your heart turning into a stone, getting heavier each moment making it difficult for the legs to bear it's weight and you just pray that somehow the heart is ripped out of your body so that it does not hurt anymore but it doesn't happen, neither does the heart gets ripped off nor does it stop hurting..

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