Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

Iam 22 and just started my career,my family thinks,as i got a job now,its high time that i get married,i conveyed to them clearly that iam not ready and needs time.But without my consent they started looking for matches,fed up with their continuous calls and sayings,i talked to 2 guys,who were like they are marrying for family sake,and not really ready,they were really young too!
Everytime this conversation comes up,they are cutting me off and says we are just looking and not getting you married off soon.I recently talked to one of my parents again with a strong view points,now they are saying,when i got the job,i think iam independent and can do things alone thats why iam speaking like this.I told iam speaking for myself and not for anyone else and i can only do that.They told whatever you say,we will hear and leave it ,thats all.I further started making a conversation ,that time they angrily told ok fine we wont look any further and when you come and say then only we will look like that,but iam sure that was a way of escaping the conversation and iam sure they will come up again with it.Im stuck in between this.