I understand but I donβt think someone will marry me when they get to know about this disorder. :( This disorder is also one of the reasons why my dad doesnβt wanna get me married. I guess since my future is so uncertain they donβt want drama in their life.
I donβt think I have the confidence of doing that because somewhere in my mind the thought will always be there that my dad doesnβt wanna get me married. And, I am a girl. I have always been kind of underconfident unlike some girls who are so bold. I donβt wanna hide about my disorder but I know no one will take it positively esp. in arranged marriage if you think practically for a moment.
I really appreciate your support.
Yes I agree. If I get a chance I will talk to more people to get to know them. But, as I said I have never even got a proposal in my life. I know some girls are just the popular ones and every boy approaches them. I donβt know what a boy sees in a girl when they approach them for relationship. I know that I donβt have that factor hence no boy has ever seen me as a relationship material. Hence, I find love marriage impossible for me.
My classmate said that the dating apps are not for serious relationships. Please tell me honestly, are people on these apps looking for serious relationships or casual fling? Coz as you may have judged, I have no experience in this dating arena so I donβt wanna get fooled either.
Yes, thats what I fear, identifying peopleβs intention, thats tough. But, maybe with experience that is chatting I will understand. I will have good & bad experience both maybe but maybe itβll help me.
I know I am an underconfident person. I am not that bold. Maybe I like to stay in my comfort zone, thats why. Thank-you!
Thank-you!
NoName @tutti
Tell your parents that you want to get married
Iβve told them but my dad says otherwise and my mom doesnβt wanna argue with him coz she fears if I get married and maybe divorce happens then she will feel like her decision was wrong. She doesnβt wanna go through that I guess.
If you want to get married, you surely should. Find platform where you can meet people, open up about your disorder. You will surely meet someone. Never give up. Never think you will never have a chance to get married.
I do have a very, very tiny hope in my heart that maybe I will meet someone coz the heart always hopes. But then I feel maybe time will fly fast and my time will be over.
Have you ever tried to reach out to someone?
I was going to once after a lot of thinking but then I found out he was in a relationship. Lately I havenβt met anyone since it is work from home right now.
I know itβs bit hard. Some suggestions. Find group of people that help in that case, I know one that is soul sisters in my country, idk if there are people there from other countries too, but its really helping. Find that kind of group, tell your story. Talk more about it. Only you can do it for yourself know that.