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Anonymous

I was talking to this guy and I started liking him. But after maybe one week or so I realised that he is boring. He don’t have much to say. Initially it was going good but I realised he don’t have much to bring to the table. And the second reason is I was interested in someone else so maybe I wasn’t able to form any relation with him. After a time I went back to the person I was interested but things ended badly. I thought that maybe I should give this guy a chance because at least he is interested and put efforts. But now I am seeing that it’s not working. I can’t like him. I am not interested. Now I already have come in and out of his life like three times. But that all was okay. But this time what to do? How to avoid him? I will hurt him again. But idk how to leave him or say no. He sends snaps each day. I am feeling too had for him.

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Anonymous

Pehle to clearly describe kro konsa him konse he ke liye hai ?

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Anonymous

Don’t make move… without deciding by yourself first
Choose which brings you peace,comfort…
Excitement is not always needed in relationships…
Peace,comfort, trust is important…
And tell him all things that you are feeling and written here so that he don’t get confused by your behaviour

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Anonymous

I too am confused.

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Anonymous

I never did this behaviour in the past. Never! But I am 28 rn. And I have dated a few and been in two serious relationship but I failed. So that’s why I thought maybe it’s better to go with someone who likes me. That’s why I thought to give him a chance. Though I didn’t make it obvious. And he knows that I am interested in someone else .

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Sab kuch ap clear krdo unhe

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Anonymous

You have been in multiple relationships but nothing worked out and with this guy you are also not getting along. Maybe the problem is in your perception of relationship.
See, generally people misunderstood liking with love and get into relationship and later finds out that it is not what I expected. Failure comes from insincere observation of one’s emotions and expediency of persuing of potential happiness. You need to figure out what you want from a relationship.
You will not get everything so prioritise what is primary and then try to think in the same way putting yourself in the position of being judged. Once you get the realisation that I want and what I can provide, gates will open up for you. You just can not go along with the man that shows up in your life as it will crumble eventually from your idealization of happiness which is, by default, lies within you not in others. Do not approch this man as your inner self knows already that you can’t get along.
Figure things out first. Remember: It is harsh truth that relationships are hard to maintain then start a new one.

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