I was recently flushed up with all these emotions and I was too afraid to share it with someone because I was afraid that I might lose the people I love the most. The thing is, I am in a very beautiful relationship and my boyfriend is the one every girl could ask for. He is such a caring and amazing person and I love him deeply. And there is a guy I recently met at my workplace who is super fun and carefree character and fun to hang out with. I feel like I’ve started to develop some kinda feelings for this guy which is god knows what. I like to be around him and I love talking to him. I don’t know what I feel for him and I feel bad for that. I would never want to cheat or hurt my bf and I’ve never acted upon my feelings. Even that guy, he is not ready to take anything serious with anyone because he always puts his family first. He sees me as his very good friend. He gives me so much importance and he’s such an amazing person too. But sometimes without any control I fall for this guy’s jokes and talks. But no matter what I feel for this guy I never unfell for my bf. Sometimes it hurts when I see this guy with other girls. Idk why I’m being jealous in this friendship and I don’t want to feel this way anymore. I wanted to tell this to somebody but I was kind of afraid to. I hope somebody understand what I am going through.
Shalin Gupta @shalin99
Honestly I’m not qualified to give you any kind of advice on this matter.
But you need to move on from one of the guys either it’s your bf or that new guy.
If I’ve to say than you should move on from the new guy because it’s not sure that he’ll feel same way for you in return but your bf already have feelings for you.
But as i said I’m not qualified enough for this so you should do what seems best for you but do it quickly before you break someone’s trust.
