I was molested by my boyfriend and I forgave him because of not knowing the concept of concent. Since then I have been having second thoughts. Concent is not something we have been taught in school or home and it is his first relationship also, so I guess, may be, he is innocent, which is why I forgave him, but I’m still not sure, any suggestions?
Red flag. Stay away from him.
You need to have a gentle but firm talk with him about boundaries. If he doesn’t respect your boundaries, it’s better to break up with him.
After all, sex is a very sensitive and significant event both physically and mentally. If you are not comfortable with or consenting to any sexual activity, you should not be forced to live through the trauma.
I had a word with him, all he kept saying was that he won’t repeat it from now but not as if he was guilty, but in a manipulative manner
It’s time to escape that piece of shit, girl! Break contact with him from all social media. As suggested by another user, keep your parents informed so that they can take your side if he tries something in retaliation.
Aaj molest kiya, kal ko rape bhi kar sakta hai. It’s better to keep yourself safe.
I think you should just get away from him and atleast inform your parents about it cause the same have been done with one of my female friend but she doesn’t told her parents earlier but the guy was still misbehaving then she told her parents so everything’s better now!!
