I was in relationship with a guy for two years...in these two years we broke up and got back together a lot of time...coz he has a lot of committment issues...some time back he broke up with me...and now he wants to get back together...I can see he is now trying to make things work this time...but now I don't have that strong feelings for him..I have always have this fear he is gonna break up again...I don't know what should I do


Leave him. And never look back. I have been in this exact kind of relationship. You know what you should do? Love yourself more first. Once you love yourself more, the guy come second. And if he's being a shitty boyfriend, then you will soon realize that you are much better without him. You deserve someone better. I know it is hard, trust me I know. We are too precious to let our time and the love that we have wasted for someone that isn't going to change. Let him go, cry a few night and come back stronger!

Relationships

Guys, I need your help. So there is this guy with whom I was kinda on a flirt stage but our flirt was on the grounds of genuine like of each other. Then for some reasons we could not be together and now he is with someone else. Before, he would express his feelings with gentle touching on my hair or face, nothing over the line. But now that he has a gf he still does those things sometimes. Like I'm so confused. Him being like that, makes me think of him the same way before which is wrong, i should not like or love him anymore. So I'm planning to tell him about this and ask him to stop it. But how should i explain it to him? I don't want to be harsh or anything but should I let him know that if his like that it effects my feelings? Or what.. How to say it. any idea? 

3am Thoughts

I m really feeling depressed. After sharing 11 yrs of relationship when we come to this stage let's marry he said kundali gun milan is less than 18 so we can't marry. 

I really love him alot, can't take this anymore. 

Anxiety

We've been together for +1.5years, friends before that, long-distance relationship, planning to get married. His parents are so old-fashioned and close minded and wanted a specific type, that was religious and has his same occupation. He's been trying to "convince" them, but I don't buy it that he's been trying hard, anyway, last thing is he chose the easy way out bec I can't wait forever with no plan. He gave me up not to further piss them off and I can't believe his parents has that much control over his life, although he is independent, that all of this was for nothing, and that I chose so foolishly someone who didn't want me enough to stay..

Breakup

I feel like my life was wasted I broke up with my bf and two month later he in prisn he asked me to wait for him and I did 8 years later he got out and I moved two hours  away from my family   4 years after moving my life he asked me to marry him and our whole marriage was like we were room mates no sex no sleeping in the same room and now we are divorced and I'm stuck in a town that I know no one and I shut me self off from the world bc his charges was a sex offense  and he was on probation from 15 years  I feel like a fool and a dumb ass I just want to leave 

So , my bf wont talk to my dad about our marriage and says he is scared and have no clue on what to talk and how to start .
On the other he wont say to his mom about our relationship becoz he is saying she wont accept now as his brother has to get married.
I gave him a choice to either talk to his mom or to my dad becoz i was being pressurized to get married as some marriage propasals came.
He didnt want to do either of them so i said lets breakup amd he too said ok.
It hurt me as hell becoz he wuld rather breakup with me and leave me than talking to my dad or his mom about us.
Did i do the right thing ? Or did i make any mistake?
Help me guyzz..

Time and then, things get weird. People change, feelings change and so do we. But can you relate to something you felt that- you can never get 'that damn thing' out from your system. Something you felt when you met someone that they were meant to be the most prestigious ones in your life, those things that you could never change, the similar way you can't change how much you love your parents?
I had that in my life. I met that someone. For that person I am certain, the feelings can never go. I will love him forever. I will be with him forever. Even though we aren't together I've pledged that I won't leave his side. I love him. I am scared that someday he will go away but I know sooner or later I will find him, he will be back with him. I believe that. I know that feeling this way is really hard, going on with this is hard but I have to try, I have to try my best for him. I promise to be with him for better or for worse, in every thick and thin of life. 
 
I love him and I respect him. I hope that he realises this one day and be with me. That's all that I wish for. 

I'm feeling sad and a feeling of anxiety is also there..this all is happening just because I coincidentally  saw my ex yesterday and I can't put that off my mind...his face is just stuck in my mind and I can't concentrate on anything ,I'm just thinking about all that stuff that happened in the past😔😔 Please someone tell me how to cope up with this.

confused....
    i am 19  years old and i breakeup recently with my boyfriend actually i dont feel comfortable with him because he used to talk about weird things  but when i told these things to him he always  ignores. I also saw in his chats that he used to flirt with so other girls before being my boyfriend at the same time he used to say those things to me also when i asked him he told that forget those things . then i made a fake profile and asked him to be my boyfriend he agrees and then i showed all those chats to him and he was like he knows that i was using that fake profile. My trust broke but when i told that i want to breakup he was like what happened and why i am doing this and in front of my friends he made me as a cheater who used him , so i lied that my parents knew about us and they seized my phone thats why i can not talk to him. Due to this reason,  i am in depression because i dont know what to do.

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