I was in a relationship with a guy for 4 years, we broke up its been some 4 years to breakup, we were in long distance relationship in last year he was almost cheating on me with some girl and today I saw some common friend posting up they both getting married, I’m not feeling good since I saw that, I’ve been feeling very low I was over him and suddenly I feel like where it all go wrong we were so happy together and I’ve been overthinking alot and making myself upset.
I never got anyone compatible to be in a long term relationship after him I so wanted a partner to be there for me and I don’t know I’m feeling sad about me not getting anyone or him getting married to someone he cheated me up on or what I’m just not feeling good!
Hi there! Firstly, what you are feeling is normal. It is okay to be hurt to see someone you were once in love with to move on with someone else, it only means that your feelings were true. More importantly, you have to accept that the relationship wasn’t meant for you. And to do that, think about all the reasons why you broke up in the first place. Now ask yourself, would you really want to be with someone who is not loyal to you? Is that really the type of partner you are looking for? The fact that you still feel bad about him moving on only means that it’s high time you focus on yourself- your studies, your career, your goals, your family and friends, your mental and physical health. Once you focus on yourself, the right kind of people will come into your life. Trust me! As they say, your vibe attracts your tribe! Let me know if this helps! Take care :)
