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Anonymous

I was in a relationship for past 3+ months when I met her in college for a short term course, she came to delhi to attend it and eventually we fall in love…but she was the one who chased me and my attention initially and things started moving more deeply…we spent very good time with each other…we used to talk almost whole night…chat whole day whenever possible…meeting up every alternate days / weekends…then one days she opened up about her very bad past relationship with someone for 6+ years with whom everything was decided and they will marry soon…but things went wrong and they decided not to continue anymore but as per her they never breakup formally …she never contacted him nor he contacted her, now because of this she is having very bad mood swings every 3-4 days and it was manageable initially when we got into relation.
but now since last month …she is like I don’t want any relationship and she want to to be alone as she says his past memories are still afresh and she can live with that, she said this to me earlier also but more in a casual way but this time it’s like that she don’t even want to talk on call nor even in a good way on chat…only talks to the point and no personal questions.
if I don’t text her she never text me…even many a times she had blocked me everywhere for days and then unblock sometimes just to ask about the course.
I really love her and it feels like I can’t live without her…I am having sleepless nights , crying and my mind is fully occupied even on the days in my office with her memories.
she had now shifted to her hometown in assam and no plans coming back to delhi as of now.
I really don’t know what to do now.
Please help me 🙏

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@ype_aka

You should move on my friend.
Focus on your life and career…she has clearly moved on.
Take good care of yourself.
Iam with you.

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Anonymous

Agree…but how to control ourselves not to think about her…it’s like at night I can’t sleep properly without thinking about her the moments and cries

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@shara

Let her go. Dont hold on things you cant control. The happiest moment is you are with yourself.

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Anonymous

it’s like I tried many times not to text her…but after sometime I do text keeping all my self respect aside and she reverts which is not personal to us and conversations go on…I really don’t know what I am doing

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Anonymous

ASEXUAL
No sexual attraction

DEMISEXUAL
May experience sexual attraction only when deep connection is formed

FRAYSEXUAL
Opposite to DEMI attraction disappears when bond occurs

GREYSEXUAL
Experience sexual attraction rarely

QUOISEXUAL
Unsure whether you have sexual attraction

CADESEXUAL
ASEXUAL due to past trauma

I think and you think and accept

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Anonymous

Bhai bura maat manna jab 6 saal ka relation chod kr tere pss aagyi bina official breakup ke toh sogh tere sath kitne din hi rukti jyda soch mt bss move on krne ki try krta reh yha aise hi hota hai jitna jyda sochega utna dard hoga

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Anonymous

Yes…the point you said sounds true…but wahe hai na yaaar…Kash mujhe uske bina jeena aata just like her past ex…par mai koshish karunga

Anonymous

Bro you should move on once a person mind change u can’t do anything even if you beg and show your hopeless condition they won’t even care it is my personal experience bro this girls are always like this at the end we are the only one who gets hurt so think twice before you come into relation
Now you should try to move on think for your family
And if you want to be happy do something good like giving food to beggars you will feel good

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Anonymous

Bhai ekdm sahi keh rha hmlog ek tarah se khilaona bn k reh jate h jb mn kiya mind k sath emotion k sath aakr khel li toh yha yhi acha h sab sahi hojta hai time pr trust rkho r daily jitta utna dhere dhere busy rehne ki try krte rho

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