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Adhu @coolmanswag

I was in a 3 and a half year relationship. It was toxic, on and off kinda. She used to want breakup most times but i used to work things out all the time cus i had hope that things would be better off. I adjusted a lot for her till the point i started losing myself whereas she didnā€™t adjust much.
I met another girl one day, we spent a lot of time together, talked a lot, understood each other. She was everything that i could ask for. I developed feelings for her while i was committed to another girl. But i did not cheat on her. I told my gf the next day that i felt this towards another girl and one thing led to another and I broke up with her.
Am i doing the right thing? The new girl is not interested in any relationship, as she have had a pretty bad past. But right now i feel like as if i canā€™t live without her.

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Honestly you did the right thing by ending a toxic relationship and for the preset girl try to make her feel comfortable around you ā€¦make her feel safe ā€¦give her some time to adjust and sheā€™ll eventually will be into you !
Keep calm and remember great things take time ā€¦so keep going buddy and just move on from your toxic ex !
Good luck buddy šŸ¤ž

Adhu @coolmanswag

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The sad part is that, now my ex wants to get back together, she wants me to give her just one chance. But my feelings for her is already lost.

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