I was dating him since 1 year, gradually I realised that he’s not the person I want. I’m ambitious & wanted him to support & guide me but as he’s not ambitious he just wanted to talk all day round, I used to talk and manage my studies later but gradually I started unloving him because of his nature. As we had come a long way in our relationship all we had to talk was sext type stuffs and nothing good & he was not interested in sharing daily life chores he did with me. I tried to telling him that I’m not liking all this by giving him some hints but he never understood and after some days I left replying him and since then it has been a month, I have not talked to him. I was not willing to and also I was very busy with my collage. I wanted to balance him & my collage together but he didn’t support.He tried calling & messaging for a week & then he left trying too. After a month, now, his female best friend is calling me but I’m not answering her. I’m very confused, I don’t know whether I should talk to her or not, should I tell her what I feel or not.I haven’t talked to my bf since so many days, it’s obvious that he must be angry so in this situation will he understand what I want from from from him
What should I actually do?
Tell him what you really feel and what you really want
December @december99
Firstly, talk to yourself and figure out if you finally want to be with him or not. Once done, talk to him because sometimes hints are not enough, and talking it out is always a good idea, listen to him, tell him what you need and see if it then works out.
Leave him by having conversation
Clear things with him.
He still loves me a lot but for my studies I need some break from him, will he agree and if he refuses will it be bad if I breakup
