I want to break up with my current boyfriend,because I feel him to be too demanding, in the sense that he always wants me to send him nudes, and when I don’t, he keeps cribbing till i do , I feel very pressured about the same and I am worried he might do something if I break up with him that will affect my life, tips on how to break up with a toxic boyfriend?
See you need to know he can do anything which can affect you…so you need to be very careful with the words like don’t use the words that seems like you are blaming him you need to be very choosy about the words…tell me what kind of person he is … according to you what will be his reaction if you try to break up with him?
I come from a very conservative family, I am afraid he will try to contact them or something about what all I do and that I was a in a relationship with him, my parents would make my life hell, if they come to know.
He is in general a very chill person, but I would say with an insatiable sexual appetite, he can make anything sexual and then demands nudes for the same, the whole idea of indulging in the same disgusts me now, and we are a in a long distance relationship for a year now, he had also ghosted me perviously for almost 6 months cause he could not handle the “pressure of a relationship and college simultaneously”, I always wonder why I took him back
Listen to me…what you can do is just be wise from his words and says that things aren’t working between you two…and you need to focus on yourself now…and just cut him off from your life…never contact him nor communicate him… and just a little advice do not send your private pictures ever because a friend in present can be enemy in future…just know this real and genuine people are less in life…so be wise while trusting them okay be calm and everything is going to be okayy… take care of yourself 💜
thewallflower @sakshiii
well hon, you should try and tell him calmly that you are not comfortable doing what he is asking you to do! and he still doesn’t understand tell him that you can’t be with someone who forces you to do something, who makes you do things you are not comfortable doing.
hope it helps!!!
lots of love and power to you love.❣️
Just talk to him . Tell him that you don’t feel happy in this relationship. Tell him that you would like to take a break or if you are absolutely sure you want to gte out just break up . Your body is yours and no one has the right to pressurise you into sending nudes or anything for that matter . If your mental and physical health is adversely affected by the relationship then it is toxic . You are a strong beautiful individual woman and I believe in you.
Sending you all the love and power ❤️
-N
jay @jay12
If you really want to breakup tell him directly…if you want things to get better talk with him
If you cannot be recognized from those nudes, then you’re safe. but if he has your chats, there’s a slight chance that your family may get convinced that those are yours. Listen, you need to plan properly what you gonna do. Imagine every situation that can happen if you breakup with him and find some solution. You should definitely break up but do it being as careful you can be with him. You must know what kind of guy he is. And as someone said DO NOT send nudes to anyone whom you don’t trust. Be careful sis
If you are uncomfortable sending your nudes to your boyfriend, it has to be clearly communicated to him first as he may be thinking that you are just trying to gain his attention.
After this step, if he really loves you, he will NEVER ask you for them, and if he still demands, he never loved you (sorry for being harsh) and he is using those images for other purposes. If this happens, you should surely break up with him, but it has to be done smartly. You have to make sure that all the photos that you have sent are deleted by him, and even if there is a trace of threat given by him, or if he leaks them anywhere, please report this to the cyber police, nearest police station or take help from the NCW.
To be honest, being a boy, I would never ask my girl to send her nudes!
If they love you for your body leave them ASAP
Hey, How are you doing now? and How is life in large?
rudra7 @rapid_daisy_5
Please try to create your boundaries first and keep your thoughts clear…
