I wanna share something that could seem stupid but for me it’s not. Next month, on May 18, I’ll turn 18. I haven’t organised anything yet, I don’t wanna celebrate with my relatives for many reasons. I’m also struggling 'cause I have a bad situation at home (found out that my father cheated) and I can’t stand anymore lies, fake smiles, holding tears and hearing yelling all day every day. I have no friends except my classmates, recently I also felt like my closest friends in class don’t car about me (they saw me crying in class and did nothing to cheer me up, just minding their business). At least I have my boyfriend and my sister (older than me). So I don’t know what to do on my birthday, I wanna do something special (at least for having a good memory) but I’m not really able to have fun, smile for all the family stuff I’ve been through recently. I wanted to share these thoughts, now I feel more relieved. Thank you for reading and for any answer or advice, they would be really helpful.
junk DNA @tum
you are at growing phase … don’t believe everything spontaneously with emotions rushing at the moment…step back look at the situation with different pov… learn more about yourself what you like what triggers …etc this will ease your path…
one more time i repeat*dont believe anyone without any analysis…(take advice, try to understand…i knw it will be difficult will. develope scientific temper))
happy growing my lil sis/brother
thank you so much for your words💞
junk DNA @tum
Happy birthday pal!! (in advance)best wishes for you
Mariah Wilson @mariahw02
Maybe on ur birthday have a day with ur boyfriend and sister and whoever else u would like to have there that makes u happy. Then do stuff that u love to do or stuff thats so out of the ordinary but makes u happy! Idk where u live but maybe theres a drive in movie or do something or go somewhere u have never been before or even go on a picnic somewhere beautiful. Then if ur family wants to do something for ur birthday do it the next day or don’t do anything at all ur 18 u can make ur choice ik that easier said then done but make ur birthday urs! U don’t need a lot of people their to make it memorable. ♥️
Thank you for the advice and the motivation❤️
Mariah Wilson @mariahw02
You’re welcome and happy early birthday love 🤍
