I think my parents are trying for another baby. I feel like us, siblings are enough. I want them to consider that bringing another child in the family may be hard. You know, we may have financial issues especially this pandemic both of my parents are unemployed. I honestly donât want another one. I dont want her or him to feel how dangerous and cruel this world can be. I donât want him/her to feel the pain and dont want him/her to go through the hardship we are experiencing. I donât want him/her to feel like our parents donât care about us, to feel unloved, to get yelled at, to be blamed at even though its not them. I just dont want another life coming in our family when my parents canât even understand that their child is mentally dying because of them. I just donât want the baby to experience what I am going through. If they have one I am so sure that once my oldest sibling graduates and gets a job they will ask for money to raise the youngest. Not to mention the 18 year age gap. I am honestly scared if my mother gets pregnant. Sometimes I wonder if I am being to selfish not agreeing to them having another child. I think I am being to cruel because I sometimes want to hope that miscarriage will happen. I want them to hear their childrenâs opinions on having another family member before they do anything.
Puh.tato @kumkum
Iâm happy that youâre thinking so much about an unborn life. It sure may increase the financial problems and believe me that sure is crucial as hell. When they ask you what you feel about it, just ask them how will they manage it financially. It will be hard for your family if financial system is weak. And for the things you said, If they still want a child, idk if theyâre gonna listen to you so be prepared. This world can be cruel but there are better people in it too. There are feelings like happiness, joy and love. Iâm sure you will be there for him/her. You will not let those things happen to him/her. You are not being selfish.
