I think i have autism and my mom thinks it could be possible but ive just shown so many signs growing up and now too idk how to find out

Yes they can its being self aware and in some cases yes because its not just as severe

I don’t think autistic people can realize it by themselves.

Autism is not a disease, it's just the way of life adopted by a person. So, no need to find it out... It's okay.

Autism

I recently opened up to a new close friend about my trauma and SH. I saw them two days later and found out that they did SH that night bc they seemed jealous as thought I had worse problems. Now it feels like a competition. Why do such serious things have to be competitive? 

Self Harm

that one song which exactly tells what u want to say ....

' Meri bebasi ka bayaan hai '
bas chal raha na iss ghadi ..'

Anxiety

Ok so tell me-

Jo maa baap ko chod da pyaar ka liya
Yaa fir jo pyaar ko chod da maa baap ka liya?

Dosti yaa pyaar?

Dosti yaa pariwaar?

Family, friendship or love(choose one)?

3am Thoughts

The proverb is wrong.

Time does not heal all wounds.

It merely softens the pain and blurs the memories.

Life

upset,confused,hurt
i have been in a relationship for last 3 years and i have never been so happy before. After a year i went to another country for my higher studies and he continued his job in india. Moving to a foreign land, all alone, living on your own is not easy at all and i used to miss him a lot. Unfortunately i cheated on him once but it happened only and only because of my emotional need nothing else,infact i never even imagined that such thing would happen one day. After a few months i gathered the courage and confessed to him. obviously he was shattered emotionally but he forgave me after taking his time and everything went back to normal. After 15-16 months he started acting very insecure. getting furious on small things and bringing that past mistake in each and every argument. Once i casually sent him a picture of a random,unknown boy from reels of instagram and said i like his beard and all of a sudden he accused me of so many things. 'who knows you may cheat on me again','there must be good looking boys in your university,will you fall for them too' and so on. We were already having many unresolved issues because of lack of proper ways and privacy to communicate like once i asked him to lend me some money and said i will return it in a week but he got furious and said i am not your bank. It hurt me really badly because i have very strong morals to never depend on someone for my leisure or expenses. He once came to meet me in abroad and i split the expenses in equal parts. He doesn't forget to mention this thing in arguments and every time i ask to meet him or go on a vacation he clearly says he won't travel anywhere. if i want to meet him i will have to go to where he lives. we haven't talked for more than a week and i did not get his single text. I don't know what to do anymore. He is really a good guy but it seems we have changed as an individual and we can't continue long distance relationship

Relationships

Daba dabake connection request bhejo

Other

I don’t think polygamy is a big deal. Open relationships need to be normalised. Life is very finite in nature, it is far too short to be bored of one person. Spicing it up and having 3-4 partners to bore you is where its at.

There are several types of cognitive distortions, including:

1. **All-or-Nothing Thinking**: Seeing things as black or white, with no middle ground.
2. **Overgeneralization**: Making broad, sweeping conclusions based on single incidents.
3. **Filtering**: Focusing solely on the negative aspects while ignoring the positive.
4. **Jumping to Conclusions**: Assuming negative outcomes without evidence (e.g., mind reading or fortune-telling).
5. **Catastrophizing**: Expecting the worst possible outcome and exaggerating the consequences.
6. **Personalization**: Taking responsibility for events outside of your control.
7. **Labeling**: Applying negative labels to oneself or others based on specific actions.
8. **Magnification and Minimization**: Exaggerating the importance of negative events while downplaying the positive ones.
9. **Should Statements**: Imposing rigid expectations on oneself or others.
10. **Emotional Reasoning**: Believing that feelings reflect reality, regardless of evidence.
11. **Discounting the Positive**: Rejecting positive experiences by insisting they "don't count."

Recognizing these patterns can help individuals challenge and modify their thinking to improve mental well-being.

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