I think either its a relationship or friendship if its toxic its gonna damage you on deeper level .you might devlop trust issues, insecurities, self doubts and many more things because of that…
And you can’t just end this toxic cycle with a blink of an eye.it takes alot of courage to go against everything that you once believe was true.they were everything you ever wanted in your life, because of them everything was fine , they might be the reason you had a big smile on your face even on your worst days, they might be the reason you feel understood or heard…i can’t just described in words but they were good to you…and they turned out to be a different person and thats what broke your heart into millions of pieces…as they said they will never changed but they did…
And when you consider someone vital part of your life but they leave, its not only broke your heart but also broke your trust…no amount of words can describe that feeling…
but let me tell you one thing the more you stay the more its gonna hurt…the more ita gonna broke your heart… every single day…so its better for you to maintain your distance from them and then slowly cut them off from your life…and its going to hurt you alot like hell alot ,you feel lost without them .but by walking away from them you are going to protect your peace, you are going to protect yourself…this pain is gonna protect you in the end…
At the last you have to learn that somebody can be good person but still they are not good for you,they don’t deserve you…
take good care of yourself and I am sure you will get real good people in your life someday… don’t settle for less…
- Queen 👑
Ricky @ricky_
Actually…this term “toxic” has been misused by those who are toxic themselves nowadays unfortunately to dump once they find a person not needed anymore bcoz they got other interesting and better friends. It has become a trend to simply call people toxic the moment you assume that the person is just wasting your time…that might not be the case always. Anyways…it’s not always getting someone better bcoz there will be always someone better and the moment you find that…it’s natural for your old close friend to be jealous and angry…and he suddenly becomes toxic to you bcoz you don’t value him anymore which is actually very rude from your side since he was there for you all along.
Take care 🧡
i think you misunderstood the whole concept of post…its about people can be good but not good for you…the term toxic is completely different here… toxic refer to not good for you…which affects your mental health as well emotional health…
Ricky @ricky_
Nah…sorry 😅 your post is fine…I wasn’t pointing out about what u wrote…I was just saying nowadays, people use this term toxic even though their relationship was good, they wanted to break it off bcoz they themselves were toxic. I was just mentioning another point…not related to your post 😅 sorry. Take care Queen bee 🐝
its okay i understand why you said that…and i agree with you sometimes people do that
Sansthita @sansthita
Killed it! Beautifully put
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