I think either its a relationship or friendship if its toxic its gonna damage you on deeper level .you might devlop trust issues, insecurities, self doubts and many more things because of thatβ¦
And you canβt just end this toxic cycle with a blink of an eye.it takes alot of courage to go against everything that you once believe was true.they were everything you ever wanted in your life, because of them everything was fine , they might be the reason you had a big smile on your face even on your worst days, they might be the reason you feel understood or heardβ¦i canβt just described in words but they were good to youβ¦and they turned out to be a different person and thats what broke your heart into millions of piecesβ¦as they said they will never changed but they didβ¦
And when you consider someone vital part of your life but they leave, its not only broke your heart but also broke your trustβ¦no amount of words can describe that feelingβ¦
but let me tell you one thing the more you stay the more its gonna hurtβ¦the more ita gonna broke your heartβ¦ every single dayβ¦so its better for you to maintain your distance from them and then slowly cut them off from your lifeβ¦and its going to hurt you alot like hell alot ,you feel lost without them .but by walking away from them you are going to protect your peace, you are going to protect yourselfβ¦this pain is gonna protect you in the endβ¦
At the last you have to learn that somebody can be good person but still they are not good for you,they donβt deserve youβ¦
take good care of yourself and I am sure you will get real good people in your life somedayβ¦ donβt settle for lessβ¦
- Queen π
Ricky @ricky_
Actuallyβ¦this term βtoxicβ has been misused by those who are toxic themselves nowadays unfortunately to dump once they find a person not needed anymore bcoz they got other interesting and better friends. It has become a trend to simply call people toxic the moment you assume that the person is just wasting your timeβ¦that might not be the case always. Anywaysβ¦itβs not always getting someone better bcoz there will be always someone better and the moment you find thatβ¦itβs natural for your old close friend to be jealous and angryβ¦and he suddenly becomes toxic to you bcoz you donβt value him anymore which is actually very rude from your side since he was there for you all along.
Take care π§‘
i think you misunderstood the whole concept of postβ¦its about people can be good but not good for youβ¦the term toxic is completely different hereβ¦ toxic refer to not good for youβ¦which affects your mental health as well emotional healthβ¦
Ricky @ricky_
Nahβ¦sorry π your post is fineβ¦I wasnβt pointing out about what u wroteβ¦I was just saying nowadays, people use this term toxic even though their relationship was good, they wanted to break it off bcoz they themselves were toxic. I was just mentioning another pointβ¦not related to your post π sorry. Take care Queen bee π
its okay i understand why you said thatβ¦and i agree with you sometimes people do that
Sansthita @sansthita
Killed it! Beautifully put
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