I think and have noticed number of breakups have increased since pandamic. What can be possible reasons. Can we discuss here???
Itโs probably because of the emotional distancing that happened because of the social distancing.
Online relationships are often not as good as in-person relationships
I agree with you. If atall due to current situation we are compelled to stay away. But as humans we need some kind of physical pressure of our partner. Be it just sitting together, walks, holding hands etcโฆ These samll activities matter alotโฆ
I believe most of us are not able to do theseโฆ Thus causing frustration. Which is resulting in fights etcโฆ
There are a lot many reasons for that.
Most of the couples used to meet on daily basis this pandemic made a distance between them so got insecurities n issues.
Some ppl got a lot much time to talk to other ppl n then they got a good bond with someone else.
Few of them got stuck in situations n leading to take decisions which their partner didnโt like ended breaking up.
All these 3 proposed situations are true.
But i see more of trust issues. What can be reason for it. As all of us are at home. So there is no chance of cheating
See people are home so they have more free time in that they talk with new people not all the couples share each n everything with their partner n upon all that u know this generation has a lot of trust issues, insecurity, possessiveness. They feel if their partner is talking a person of opposite gender then they just flirting with them n all that nonsense shit. They think that if they share passwords n all then they will trust. The main thing of relationship is trust but these days people think if the partner is talking to someone else then they cheating. It shouldnโt be like that if u know u have then person then just trust them. People have really changed the meaning of relationship they just want someone because others are having. This thinking needs to be changed
See hook up culture is a totally different topic n relationship is different.
I have seen a lot many people this way, hook up not what this people think it actually means when two strangers get hooked up in first meet( I guess u understand what I mean) n people think that u talk with someone for days n all then u get is also hook up but no thatโs not true. Mostly u know the people who get always cheated or someone who loved with their whole heart but got broke miserable get into hook up because their heart was broken so badly that they canโt love someone anymore.
Yeah itโs true fully devoted partners are difficult to find. Guys just want a girl who is hot nice n has a lot of Instagram swag n all while girls want guys who are rich who spends a lot of money on them gift them dresses from zara n all. But relationship is not just about these things, itโs when u support each other in all ups and down be in the bad time. Not mad when they reply to ur text 5 mins late. I have really seen couples getting mad at each other because they didnโt reply in seconds, dude u all are jobless or what thatโs what I feel after seeing all that.
Once a few days back I read a post on insta that was actually the truth it said the olden relationships like from our parents generations n all lastes for 40 45 years because they supported each other in all means n ways, when they had problems they talked with each other n not shared with people through posting quotes on social media, they saw each other as one same n not two different peopleโs. That was a really very good one post.
As u said how can people cheat being at home, see what u say is mostly for the college going couples they used to be in same clg meet everyday n all now both are home so they donโt have trust like he/she is not with me so they must be cheating.
The other thing is about those 12 13 years school going couples they just donโt even understand how to solve maths problem but have relationships problems thatโs worst.
Yes people can cheat anywhere but y do u cheat is the main reason. If u love the person y would u cheat
People should focus on their career life goals more then doing this babu shona thing ๐ข
Yes I feel every couple should once be in long distance to check if they can really make it or not
See obviously u need a person but their is a certain time for that like these nibba nibbi u donโt need someone to take care of u at the age of 12 or 13. First be independent yourself then get someone.
Personally I being an independent woman I donโt like dating guys who spend their dadโs money on girls. I just hate those types of guys. Ughh how can anyone spend that hard earned money this way
Thatโs great u think this way๐
Hope u get someone soon๐
Never lose hopes man. Ik a lot many people who got their better halfs even in this lockdown.
PS: my crush also includes in that๐๐๐
No worries honey theirs always someone for us we get them at the right time๐๐
Thanks but Iโll never go for him. I got to know this true colours also๐
His*
Yes letโs hope so๐
Hey how u feeling now??
Itโs okay dear we usually know the true color late.
Get well soon sweetieโค๏ธ
Take strong n take care of yourself.
Leave him dude just donโt even say a word to him he doesnโt deserve u.
Recover fast babe๐
Simran @st1199
Hey!
How is 'Child Abuse connected with breakups?๐
Potato @whoispotato
I feel i can relate " inner child hurt" with breakups. But find no connection of child abuse with breakup.
Can you help me know this connection
Simran @st1199
A child/adult being hurt in a way because of breakups is I am assuming you mean? And, Child abuse is totally something else.
So, what connection do you want help in?๐
This phase actually shows the true bond between people. Some are staying together in the pandemic and breakimg up, whereas some havenโt met for a long time and are happily committed as they have some mutual understandings and then there are some who lost their loved ones.
This is so true. This time is either making relationship stronger or leting week relationship fall downโฆ