True...had happened...n its funny now...but it's good.. it's good to go through all phases of life.. 😂

You're not stupid. Situation is stupid. You're gonna get over it and one day you're gonna laugh on it. 

Behen l m controlling myself from day before yesterday. 

I texted him again.
I'm so stupid.

Failure

I don't think I can ever get over him. 

Exhausted

How to get over “THAT” guy ? 



Crush

Idk every guy here seems to be my ex... 
Bisi

3am Thoughts

My boyfriend is moving away to a Whole new Country and also Another continent . I am Happy for him coz he Is going there for a secure future But Its also killing me . How should i Handle this ? 

Long Distance Relationship

recently i got a match ...the boy who came to see me texted me in social account few days later... i replied to him and gave him space to keep his point of view and opinion... i given some basic information about me.... i felt that from this we can take some time to think about it carefully and take rightful decision .... becuase its aa huge decision in which our future depends .... i didn't informed my parents about this but when i discussed with my frnds .... they all are saying that its not correct to talk like that u should avoid his msg at the first stage.... when parents finalizes  that match ..than only u can talk to boy ... before that talking to him is not a good idea... by donig like that it represents ur character be like bad...and boys feel like u r character less....  because u rply and spoken to that person who will be or will not be ur partner .... before any final decision.... did i really do something wrong ...to talking to that person 

Confusion

Hello people. so there's a person "x" I talk to more like a fling on Insta, and I deactivated my Insta in July and out of no where he rang me up today...which is really weird cause I never gave him my number...and I just don't get it how am I supposed to take this? 


When I opened his insta without his notice I found he's cheating on me which he isn't feeling guilt... He's completely fine he's isn't bothered about this relationship but y am I the only one who is struggling..... I feel so anxious when my mind strikes with a thought that he's no more interested in me and he's ok letting me go 😣.... I love him so much but I don't want him..... I want to move on I'm trying but I feel pain.😣.... I feel something crushing my heart..... Any suggestions to reduce the pain.... I just don't want to care at all... He lost me but it's hurting me.... I really wanted to forget everything, this pain, those memories every single thing

Anxiety

So I've been in this state for the past 1 year. I was in a relationship for 3.5 years. We had our ups and downs but we sailed through. My boyfriend was a person who had a lot of anxiety and would overthink a lot. So most of our relationship I just heard him rant and try and help him to become better emotionally and mentally. It was emotionally exhausting for me. I was mostly in guilt all the time. Guilt of not giving him enough time, guilty of spending time with friends, when I could spend time with him, walking on eggshells around him because he was too sensitive at times, any issue I had with him, he would turn to self-loathing and then I had to end up comforting him and not talking about what I was feeling. I don't think he did it intentionally because he was always very loving and caring, other than the times when he needed me to emotionally support him, he was absolutely amazing. I made mistakes, broke up twice because I was emotionally exhausted, but we made up and got back. 
So anyway, last year he turned 22 and his family started pressurising him to get married, and so he pressured me to talk to my parents. I was 20, just finishing my graduation and preparing for masters. I had spent the last 4 years convincing my dad to send me out, to a different state or country to pursue my education. I asked him to tell his parents that he can't get married now. His parents knew about us and told him that he can get married to me until I say yes right now. Since I wasn't ready to get married, and give up my education, he and I decided to part ways and move on. He kept texting me while looking for potential matches. Kept unloading his emotional vulnerabilities on me and I kept supporting him throughout. He didn't tell his parents that he doesn't want to get married, he didnt fight for me. He texted me till 3 days before his engagement. A day after his engagement got fixed I realised that I really can't let him go and asked him to break it off, I told him I would get married to him, I spoke to my parents and did everything I could, but he said no. He said he had decided to move on because I hurt him so much, he chose a stranger over me. It's been 3 months to his engagement and I'm still stuck on him. And he is already in love with the new girl. 
Now I'm going through anxiety and depression, knowing I won't ever get over this, or him. Never fall in love again. I'm just trying to survive each day as it comes. Ive felt Suicidal, had thoughts and hoped that I die. Ive lost my sense of self confidence and self image. I was once so happy and energetic, I've just become a shell of a person now. 

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