I talking with someone in this days and he is really nice person,I know him from 2 yrs now he was my senior colleague term really good friend,we become really close that we shared everything now but problem is,he is married and we both know what we are doing,we talk some sexual stuff with each other and its feels good to talk that doing,donβt know what to do with this kind of relationship and I donβt want to ruin friendship either because of our feelings,help
Shalin Gupta @shalin99
All i can say is that you should stop it without getting too much into it.
Kushagra @kushgpt
I think you should stop coz itβs gonna hurt the third person
Donβt make yours and others life miserable. Youβre really a good person you know what is right what is wrong and you can make your own decisions. Keep him distance for some time until you get rid of those feelings. It will be hard now but will definitely make your friendship means in the future.
I can understand. But if he is into all this stuff (sexual things and all ), then ofc he is kind of cheating on his wife . Donβt take it to far and just stop . Just say u arent comfortable and if he is a good friend he will surely understand.
Go ahead itβs ur life do what makes u happy
Is that easy and possible, without any circumstances
Sparkz0302 @sparkz0302
I would suggest giving him some space. Reason being he need to make a choice wants he wants, and so do you. Are you both looking for just a bit of fun (friends with benefits) if so, it wonβt end well. Also, if you both are too close, why is he will someone else and not youβ¦ask yourself, would you be with him given the chance? Are you ready to commit and possibly spend the rest of your life with him? Does he respect you the way you think he does? How do you know heβs not hanging with you to get his freak on? Because of whatβs your both doing, is this going to come back around and bite you? (something similar when your with your partnerβ¦) a lot of questions you need to answer. You donβt have to do it here but definitely should question what is you want in life and how you want people to view you. π Iβm a guy and I understand your situation better than most might however I felt the need to put these questions in your mind if they arenβt there already. If you want to ask something from a manβs point of view, Iβll give you an honest opinion, non biased of course. π€²π½ I would rather tell you that guys are scumbags than to lie to you so your hurt in the future. β¨
I got lot of suggestions and thank you for it,we are not in physical relationship yet,we just talking in these days,so hoping that nothing will happen and our friendship remain same thatβs why Iβm scared to say stop,people easily left from your life when such things happens
