I recently went into a relationship.My bf is good looking and all this while I thought I was too.Due to lockdown I have put on some weight and during initial stages of the relationship he joked about me being fat and I expressed I didn’t like it, He never jokes about it anymore though. But he never appreciates how I look or just does it because I said something nice to him( appreciated his looks).Even during sex he never appreciates my body or anything. Recently I got to know that he has dated like countless women and had physical relationships too. Now I am all insecure, feeling very shitty about how I look and all that weight I have gained. So, I started exercising and I send him my pictures of my transformation but he never appeariciates how I look. I guess I’ll never be able to look good for him , I think he just doesn’t find me pretty considering the thousand pretty faces and bodies he has seen ,Ill never stand a chance . I don’t want to feel like shit, I hate being naked with him, I feel humiliated even when he says nothing. I don’t feel comfortable about my looks when I am with him. He is a nice guy overall but I feel shit with him physically.
Puh.tato @kumkum
Its so sad to feel insecure even with our closed ones. Girl either he is just in for a casual relationship or he just doesn’t know how to express his feelings. Don’t compare yourself to other girls he has been with, there is a reason he is not with them but you. You should talk to him about the status of your relationship tho before you get too attached to him. If this guy doesn’t doesn’t make you feel like on the top of the world, I don’t think he is the one for you. Just talk to him for once and see how it goes.
We are in a serious relationship and both our parents know and considering the scenario of marriage
Puh.tato @kumkum
I think you should tell him how you feel. He’s gonna marry you! Marriage is a big step and I’m sure he loves you enough as to take this step. Maybe he just cannot express himself or convey his feelings to you. Your insecurity won’t be good for your relationship. As we say, communication is the key.
I hope the best for you! ✨
Leave him he can cheat on you in tine and go to a nutritionist and try to look good for the rest of your life ,not for men but for you and all the time ,so even if someone will live you at least you will know that you look good and this will give you peace of mind and confidence,good luck!
