I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. He was my everything. I broke up wdh him because he didn't treat me well..we got into a silly argument where I was telling him that his actions hurt me and he was instead of apologizing keep justifying why my feelings are wrong and why he is right in what he did.
It's hard to ignore him. My parents have always told me don't go to the place where your feelings are not respected. I don't wanna go back to him but I really loved him and I'm not able to stop myself from texting him. Please suggest me few ways in which I can get over him and not go back running to him. 

The moment his text pops up. I go weak.I remember how good we were. And I wanna sort everything out but he says as he is right he won't apologize. I'll try my best to act on your advice. Thank you so much:)
I'm really lucky to have them as my parents #touchwood I hope everyone gets supporting parents like mine.

Sure I will thank you soo muchh. You guys are seriously the best:)

Also, I wanted to ask, i can't stop caring for me. I really wanna know if he fine..he had his food etc. So Is it okey? If I keep texting him and asking if he had his food? If he is fine? Can I do that?

Okaaayyyyyy. You guys seriously make things  easier. I owe you guys a lot

Breakup

So I've been taking to this guy for a year.i call him Al for now. For 7mths we were telling each other saying i love and talked about a family and kids. He didn't make things official becuase I had just broken up with my ex of 9yrs.... then Al's ex came back to his job. She confessed she missed him and that she wish things could be different. He mentioned that they even kissed. But it didn't feel the same and wants me. That were not in a relationship so it doesn't count. Now Al says that she is his best friend. When he wants his "me time" for himself they hangout. I get all upset and then he gets up set becuase I'm hounding him.... should I just stay away from him. He use to be more attentive to me and included me in everything. He said he still wants me but I can't believe him becuase I feel so betrayed. Again he states that we're not dating so it was okay.....

Anxiety

so I had friends with benefits with one of my greatest friend we had if you watch misunderstanding and fight because of one of his friend and I was somewhere at fault too.so after that he has stopped talking to me and has been ignoring me he ignores my presence as if I have vanished from this whole world. This started affecting me I was getting affected too much I was feeling as a Someone is squeezing my heart . So I had a conversation with him and I requested him not to ignore my presence as its affecting me very badly. so he agreed to it we had a DEAL that he will not ignore my presents but neither will I talk to him nor will he talk to me . but whenever we see each other or pass by he'll just give a smile that's it. I had tagged this whole affecting thing because of his ignorance as due to emotional attachment but sometimes I feel is it just an emotional attachment or is it something more do I feel something more   guys I'm dying out of confusion someone help me solve this out and clear my confusion

Confusion

Why is it soo hard to move on.... He does not care about me anymore and i am here crying over him eventhough its been 6 months since he left.. He didnt even care to give me a closure... All those things we shared meant nothing to him

Okay so here goes nothing, I met a boy online whom I've liked from a long time, We met in a group, we talked alot with each other, got along,  I don't really know from when I've feeling for him, I met him around april- may 2020 and around Feb 2021 he asked me if I like him, I told him yes but he didn't say anything after that, Once he said after months that he wants to say something to me  then he said I like you, I couldn't believe it so I asked him if it was a dare and when I asked him who gave so he said he himself gave, I dunno what to think, Also it's been more than a year since I've feeling for him I can't really decide if it's like, love or being in love
And we haven't seen each other ever or met.

I'm a 17 year old teen girl. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, at first he used to care about my feelings, was always there for me and loved me, he would say that he will never leave me, that we'll be together forever. We used to share each and everything with each other starting from our secrets to how we spent the day.  I belong from an upper middle class family, my parents are traditional thinkers and they're quite strict, they don't want me to be in a relationship at such an young age and they always tell me that first I'll have to be independent(successful) and then I can choose my life partner by myself. So when my bf told me all these things I thought that he was the one(still do) and we even got physically intimate, I Ioved him(still do) and trusted him with all my mind and heart and kept our relation a secret from my parents. I'm a board candidate(class12) as well as my bf. From past 5 months he's completely changed as though there was nothing between us and when I asked him what was wrong, he told me he's having family issues, that his family business hasn't been going well due to the covid situation and told me that he needed sometime to be normal(tension free) again and I was okay with that, but then he started humiliating me infront of my friends and told me that he is not interested in me anymore that it won't matter if I was there in his life or not but after some days he would again tell me that he loves me that he was sorry for saying all those things but then again he would treat me like that and again he would say sorry and I used to forgive him thinking that everything will be alright and then we would get intimate after that he used to tell me that he won't leave me. But from last 1 month he's behaving like he doesn't care about me at all. With everything in my mind I can't help myself but cry every single day and overthink I feel like i'm losing interest in the things i liked to do(hobbies) and also not being able to study properly, all I think about is him and our situation and it's effecting my health and I have a cardiac health problem although doctor said that I am fine now but he told my parents that I shouldn't take any kind of pressure as it could be life-threatening, he even knows about these things yet now he's telling me that he cannot promise to be with me forever or be the way he used to be but he'll be in a relationship with me. His family problem is not over yet that's why I still think that everything will be alright with time. I don't know what to do, should I be with him? and even if i'm not I feel like I won't be able to get over him.                    
  Please give me some advice. Thank you.

Depression

I m in relationship with my bf from 1 year.. everything was fine bt then lockdown happened.. he started keeping secrets from me and talk rudely.. i said him not to do so bt he is repeating same mistakes again and again..
Then i started talking with one of my classmate causally and we become very good frds in short time.. now he started having feeling for me.. he knows that I'm in relationship bt still he likes my and is treating me very nicely..
I don't know if i can trust him or not because i m afraid that once I'll be his gf he will also change like other and i can't handle one more heartbreak..
I m so confused what to do..

Boyfriend

I feel sad.. I miss him.. I miss him.. I don't know I can love one else.. soon he gonna marry someone.. he have moved on.  But iam trying but I miss him badly... it's been 4 years...  we promised each other to be good friends..  but I  miss him terribly..  I  feel like I want to hear him saying his daily activities... 

   I cannot say to him that I miss him.. don't Leave me.. bcz he said he have to do.. 

Yesterday was awful.
I felt so bad that I thought I was going to crawl out of my own skin.
I was disgusted with myself.
I matched with someone online. We chatted for a few weeks and met for tea and a walk a few days ago. I felt we really vibed. We had a lot to talk about and I felt at ease with him. He seemed really into me, and I was shocked that he seemed to have manners. I asked him why he was on dating apps. He said he wanted to go on a few dates and see where things go. I was happy to hear this as everyone else just wants fwb. I stayed over Saturday night; on Monday he text me to say he can't see it going any further.
I probably should be thankful I even got a text. 

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