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Anonymous

I really needed to say this to someone so i wrote it here…its kinda complicated not kind of, its complicated indeed. I’ve been in a relationship I guess it has been more than 1½yr for that and we broke up cause of trust issues. It was really hard for me to get over him. I had spent many nights crying for him(I’m fine now) and then I got into another relationship. He was really a good friend of mine and i was his crush from 6th standard. My friends started teasing me with his name from a few months and i thought i have feelings for him so i said him yes but i think i don’t have genuine feelings like that for him. Also the memories of my ex are hitting me. Idk what should I do i literally end up crying over my situation. It’s really very hard to get out of it like i can’t even go back to my ex and i can’t say him that I don’t have feelings for you. I’m scared that I’ll lose our friendship. Can anyone suggest what should i do
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Anonymous

At the end if you dont feel anything you ll still loose this connection with alot of hurtings, its better to have a talk about this with him coz the more late you ll do more it will affect you both.

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Anonymous

um I’ll think about it…thankyou:)

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Anonymous

yes,i do regret for the decision I’ve made… I’ll try not to hurt him

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Anonymous

Same thing happened to me long back…as I have experienced this situation I’m gonna tell you something… When u have already broken with ur ex then don’t go back and don’t hurt the person who has crush on you from 6th and u told him yes so think about him once and be open to him and talk to him now only… Don’t hurt to him atleast

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Anonymous

um yes I’ll try to do the best possible thing:)

@kai_06

First of all just stop overthinking about the things of the past and live in present and btw if you don’t have any feelings for your current bf then just say it instead of keeping him in illusion that you like or love him back, coz in some time he would know about it and then it would hurt him even more, it would be hard and tough now to say but it will betterment for both of you.

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Anonymous

yess… I’ll try to tell him about it

@kai_06

Don’t try just be truthful with him and mostly with yourself tooo

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Anonymous

:)

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