I really need an opinion on this-
I have a online friend, a guy. We started talking three months ago, and became good friends. Heβs a private person and i know basically everything about him. So like few days ago, i sent a screenshot of our chat where he was talking about one of my friend, to that friend, and sent her reaction to him. At this he got really mad and asked me to not talk to him, heβs done. I know i was in the wrong, but i intended it a light joke, but didnβt expect this as a reaction. Now as you know heβs not talking to me. But weβre still connected i donβt know till how long. Iβm missing him, getting anxiety because of it. And i have apologised to him. But he doesnβt want to talk to me.
Please tell me what to do.
What is he really mad about?
Me sharing our chat to my friend
Apologize him until he gets convinced π
I wish that would work. Heβs a big time narcissist. Not saying that i donβt want to try, but i feel like thatβs embarrassing. Plus he said βdonβt talk to me.β
We just friends π₯² obv he wouldnβt want me so bad. But i think i should try to talk once
Thank you i did. We did talk it out.
Try to have an honest conversation with him and ask him what he really is mad about??
I think reason would be something different from this.
Really? I will try to talk tho, should I ask if heβs really never going to talk to me again?
No bro donβt ask this directly heβll feel like you donβt want to talk
Nooo then what π
Can i be like " hey bud are you really never ever ever ever going to talk to me again?"
Be like
βHey bud do you wanna have a conversation on whatever happened? Letβs clear things up!β
Mature comment. π
That sounds better. Thank you
Let me know what happens after this π₯Ίπ₯Ί
Sure
We did talk things out. Although some trust issues have occurred, we might work it through?
I hope everything works out in a good way for you people. Wishing you the best π
Thank you
I have been going to similar thing but trust me you havenβt done something wrong. But I would day its still initial you can move out of this β¦I have faced The same thing invested 7 months got blamed and that person walked off
You didnβt try to reach out second time?
I tried 100 of times ditching my self respect and suffered mentally that is why I am suggesting you to give priority to your self worth and move out of this coz this is a vicious circle even if you apologize he accepts again this same thing will happen and he will always keep blaming you and making you in self doubt
And I also know the reason he will say you are not respecting my privacy n all
And this is a tactic to make you feel guilty trust me
I want to trust you π₯² i can understand your point of view
This is the second time, but last time he initiated π₯²
If you want to give an effort you can but again same thing will happen.I can understand right now you are emotionally connected to him
Youβre right. I respect your opinion
So you mean i should not text him?
Yeah thank you
the @oneandonly_
It can be hard to ask. Most people say dont ask because you might break something up. Ask yourself will you able to forget him without asking? And if you answer no. Then just fuck it. Ask him. No bullshit. No beating around the bush. Just ask him. Lesser thinking on you. Lesser headache. Lesser heartache βπΌ
Iβm going with this. Thank you
the @oneandonly_
Glad i can be of help. Do keep me updated on how it goes tho. I have an online friend of my own too. Haha. And Iβm here if you want to DM and talk girl
Thank you! It went well i suppose. We talked.
Say sorry and waitβ¦for his responseβ¦Good connection never fails
Sure thing
Say her exactly same β B-C ladki me hu ya Tu. Itne natak mat kar ππβ
Agar block ho gye toh meri zimmedaari nhi h πΌ
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The trick which is used by most of the males to make you feel guilty and fall for them I hope you think logically and leave him.