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Anonymous

I really love this guy. I don’t know if it is romantic love or not. But I do care for him a lot and I put him first every single time. But he is not serious about me, not even as a friend. He takes me for granted, never replies, never care, never give attention. I was tired of all these. I even told him how I feel when he ignores, when he never replies, when he disappears and never texts for days. But he never seems to understand them. He only texts me when he needs something. Sometimes I feel I have self respect I should stop talking with him. I never talk to him for days. But some times it feels like how ever he might be let me be myself. I used to text again. I was and am oscillating. Even now it’s been a week exactly since we talked. I feel horrible. One side I feel I never want to text him because I can see him uploading stories and statuses every single day but never getting even a second to text me a hi. He knows that will make my day. But he never did. On the other side I feel “be yourself”. But every time when I opt for the second option I get hurt and that pains same like the pain I experience when he never talks/ ignores me. Every time I see posts/feed I remember him. I just want to send them to him. But I don’t want to. I am just feeling like I am stuck deep inside my thoughts. Some one please help :(

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Anonymous

Yeah it is correct 😢 thanks a lot🌟

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@queenn

Okay tell me one thing
If i ask you to make a cycle for me with one wheel for two people are you able to do that?
No right same way if efforts are one sided,love is one sided it won’t last…and by last i mean in terms of any relationship or friendship… but we still hope for the best in hopeless situation…but dear sis tell me
Are u Willing to spend your life with a person who doesn’t feel anything or with a person who is ready to give you the world…if he feels for you a bit he won’t let you feel like this… accept this fact sometimes we have to give upon someone not because we don’t love them…but because your presence does’nt matters to them…and now the question arises what should you do?
Don’t text him
Don’t try to contact him
Don’t stalk him
Just focus on yourself…
Because you Matter princess 👑👑👑

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Anonymous

Wow😭❤️ thanks a lot…this really means a lot and gives ne so much confidence that I can overcome this🌟🌟

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Swati @snicks2212

Stop chasing him. It is guys thing and not a girls’. 😀 jokes apart, he is not into you at all. He thinks of you as a friend only. And you can never force someone to have feelings for you. Try for yourself. Can you start liking some guy just coz that guy likes you. No. We are not able to do that. Similarly, that guy is not wrong. It is just that he has no feelings for you. Did he do anythn, any efforts, any promises to wale your feelings up? If he did that, then he is at fault. Otherwise, just leave him. The right one will come to you on his own. Love and blessings to you

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Anonymous

Actually he asked me out first…at that time I never had feelings for him. I said I need some time because I had my personal reasons. After that I started feeling something for him but he started ignoring! But whatever you said is true… you can never push something into someone…and this is so so true… Thank you for making my stupid brain understand this 🌟

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Swati @snicks2212

Basically, he put you into illusion that he has feelings for you. Boys are like this only. MFs

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Anonymous

Yeah…😢

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Swati @snicks2212

Cheer up girl. You will get a good guy in your life. Just be patient and dont chase any guy.

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Anonymous

Thank you 💞 I feel better

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Swati @snicks2212

1 din me itna chnge? Nopes. I have been feeling the same about guys for the past 3 yrs

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Swati @snicks2212

Means alot love♥️

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