I really like my boyfriend. We've been together for almost 3 years now. I never told my parents about him because they are super strict and would definitely be pissed off at me for being in a relationship. Of course, I want to proceed with things on another level with him as in getting engaged and married. But, I don't see it happening. My mom has been finding guys whom I don't even know to get us married. I don't want to get married to some guy whom I do not know. They just do not understand me. I told them about my boyfriend recently. They were so mad, and they told me to forget him. My boyfriend has a stable job, a loving guy. I'm so heartbroken. My mum is forcing me to get myself married to some random guy. AAAAAAAAAAAA. I don't know what to do.  

You should’ve made a matrimonial profile for ur guy and let it cross ur mom’s screen randomly and could’ve let ur mom do the rest 🤷🏻‍♀️ 

Stress

My parents brings groom for my marriage every now and then. Ofcourse i dont wanna get married but whenever i ask my bf to let me tell me about him to my parents he says “pls give me sometime i dont have a job right now, i am working really hard. Just give me few months. The moment i get a job i will be the first to bring my parents to your home” 
What should i do ? 
Breakup??  

Breakup

Idk what flaws I have I had 2 relationships both the guys cheated on me. Then I had a crush on one of my very close friend he n I used to share everything our other friends used to think we were dating, but we weren't. Then after a few months he started liking some other girl n since then he ain't talking with me nicely. We had a big fight today at the end he said he likes that girl n after that I blocked him. Idk what's wrong with me I have a great body, a nice face, very nice and caring nature, I don't have insecurities or possessiveness this nobody wants me. When I ask my ex how was I as a gf they say I was just a perfect one but still they cheated on me. Even tho nobody wants me then. I feel like dying.....

relationships without intimacy sucks. i have been dating this person for 5 years now. we started dating when we were in 12th stnadard. we were so in love, we used to talk all the time and had the most fun experiences. after school, we went to different colleges. my boyfriend moved to banglore for his studies and i stayed in Delhi. i did not know that a long distance relationship would have such a major impact on my relationship. Long distance relationship already has so many challeneges but the relationship without intimacy is the major one. it feels like we've lost touch, our bond or connection. 

Lately i feel like i dont know the person i'm dating, he's so busy in his life and with his friends. there have been days where we've gone without texting or speaking with each other. i know there are other areas like career, family, friends are impotanat, but i feel like in the list of priority for him, i'm the last or i wonder if i'm even on the list. he has time for everyone but me. at this point, i'm just tired of constantly texting him and asking him to spend quality time with me. 

i dont even feel like we're dating, it seems forced honestly. relationships without intamcy are not realtionships- they're just things you hang on to becuase you're scared to let go and be alone. i'm so used to him that i feel like i wont be able to function without him. 

I hope i'm able to make a decision and figure out what i want to do because i'm not happy. 

Relationships

I started talking with that one guy, as best friends. Slowly we started flirting all and wanted to kiss he even always talked abt how he is afraid to lose me and he want to do what ever for me. I gave all my trust, support and love. One time we even called each other bby as a “joke” or idk if it was more than a joke. He alwYs told me not to worry cuz he will never leave me and i was so important to him even as just a firend. He beacome more flirty and saves my snaps in chat cuz  i looked good in them. I was ready but first asked him about his ex, he said they were just “FRIENDS” nothing more, and sure he had all my trust so i believed d. Than i gave him more and more trust and love we even stayed up all night talking about out future plans. Than 2 days later he said that we cant be a thing. He said he loves his ex. Now im fucked up, like what were we? How u like her? Were u lying to me? I wanna disappear from this world and even die. It has been 5 weeks im working on moving on but the fact that he is all ok and trying to get his ex back is hurting me. I cant forget abot that i wanna disappear with all the memories of him. 

hi folks 
Iam confused about my love life .
i was in a relation 4 years ago .i was blind mad what not .i put everthing into it .i took taht relation with so much dedication but becoz of one external factor we had very worst breakup and there was no single day wre i dont stalk him .but after my breakup i found very decent guy after 2 years of it .iam happy with him but iam not mad for him .now twist all of sudden i get call from my ex stating that hey iam looking up for brides but i unable to imagine anyone else other than u .iam head on heels for him but i dont know what to do iam sacred this time wht if he leaves me again middle of no life ?  
so confused ???  

Confusion

Why does he need to be so hot and cold all the time?
I want to punch him, kick him but most of all I want to kiss him and never let him go.
He is a senior and I am a freshman, which means that next year we probably won't be in the same country and this is why we are not together. We are in an "open relationship" but since there are no places to go and no parties we only see each other.
We do everything together. Play videogame, watch Netflix, cook, he even stay over every single night.
But why?
Why does he sleep on an air mattress in a shitty student hotel when he can go to his perfect apartment?
Why does he treat me like I am his princess?
Why did he admit to having feelings for me?
Why is he so caring and protective towards me?
Why can't he just make up his mind?
Why are his actions giving me different signals than his words?
And after doing all those things he just keeps a straight face.
I know that I should talk to him about my feelings and tell him that I want us to be together but I am scared. What if he rejects me or pushes me away after?
I think I am in love with him...I screwed. 
  
  

One Sided Love

One of the sweetest chapter in my life ended 4 months ago and I pushed him away bcoz he was so much into me he would literally start his day with me and end it with me only , if it was one hour gap or he couldn't see me around he would go mad and emotional and get hurt 
I couldn't see  him hurting bcoz he started overdoing everything 
And usko meri har chhoti chiz se hurt hone laga 
I finally told him mai uski weakness nai Banna chahti uska aim goals sab kuch bhul gaya tha vo itna unproductive hogaya tha 
And I realised that i couldn't stand it 
I can't see someone going down in the matter of love..
I miss him.. I just hope he is doing well and he is fine 


Hope

I’ve been on and off with a guy for more than years now. We were together for a couple of months and then i went abroad for my studies. Before leaving, I guess 3 days before leaving, he proposed me and said that he loved me. I didn’t say anything at that point of time because i cannot decided whether i love someone or not in just 1-2 months. I told me that my heart is beating fast and that I didn’t expect him to propose me this soon because according to me, love takes time. After leaving, on the first or second week of my stay in abroad, i got really drunk and told him that i loved him and he said he loves me too. But next morning when i asked him if he meant it, it said ‘i just said it because I didn’t want to ruin your mood’ and i was literally in shock. It was difficult for me to move on when I’m in a new country and all that i had in my heart was him. We were still in contact but after 2 months, we disappeared. And i was calling him texting him, but there was no response. I moved on. I stopped calling/texting and after a month, he was back. He made some stupid excuse that her sister found out about me and that she was angry and he promised her that he wont be in contact with me. I didn't care because i knew he was lying. It was on and off for a year but one day, he expressed how sorry he was and that he messed up and he wants everything back but idk it didn’t feel right to me. I told him my feelings for him is 50/50 and that i dont trust him. After that too, we were still on and off. In the middle of 2020, he said ‘please come back soon, i want this distance to be over’ and i said i will. We stopped talking after that. After 4 months of not talking, i was going back to my country but i didnt text him because we were already not in contact and its just rude if i text him like ‘hey! I’m coming back’ i felt like I’ll make him feel he’s my backup option or something. After i came back, we didn’t speak for another 2-3 months. So, in total it was around 6-7 months of not talking but i missed him. I texted him and said that i was to clear the air between us and he blew me off. He used to reply me after 4-5 hours sometimes days. I stopped texting. On new years, he texted me ‘happy new year love’ and my replies were dry so he got offended. He was like my life’s been a mess lately and that his grandmother was very sick. I checked his dad’s fb account and he was chilling. I knew he was lying about it too. Now, it was him birthday a few days ago and i didn’t wish him (he never wished me on my birthdays for 2 years) but i felt bad and i felt like i shouldn’t be like him. Idk what’s attracting me towards him when i know he doesn’t care at all. What should i do! Now i wanna go back but the only reason that i came back to my country was to marry him. What if i go back and he’s back? What if i stay and he never comes? I’m so confused! 

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