I realised that I donβt want girls to like just any aspect of me. I want them to like me for who I am, which is very unfortunate because things donβt work that way for me. I put the name of the University Iβm studying at in my dating profile. I got 5 matches over 3 days; I bet I wouldβve gotten way more if I wasnβt so selective about the swipes. But talking to them didnβt feel good. So I just unmatched.
Perhaps I am entitled for wanting people to like me. Itβs not just an expectation you have if you continue to have it even after realising it wonβt do you any good, perhaps.