I panic and overthink a lot for almost everything. I have to attend family dinner tomorrow and I’m stressing and worrying about it. I don’t want to go but it will seem very rude. I’m just thinking and stressing about it since evening
Are you in particular thinking that you’ll embarrass yourself during the gathering?
Yes. I’m not doing anything for now, I see myself as a failure. I haven’t achieved anything in life so I avoid meeting people
It’s fine if you aren’t doing anything now. I completely understand that you’re afraid that they will judge you, comment etc. But does that matter? No. Believe in yourself that you will be successful one day, and you will. 💙
Yes one day for sure, thank you ❤️
And what is the overthinking about? What particular thought is running in there?
Tbh about me. I haven’t achieved anything as such. People my age are doing jobs, masters and me? I’m still struggling to get my undergrad degree. I feel like a loser
zah @elnino
Everything we do is to please our parents. That is our conditioning. And our parents are pleased if we fit ourselves into the societal mold that is to become successful. Don’t think too much, Dress well and just attend the event… Be you Everywhere the rest will come up to you.One day you ll see why God made you wait…
Thank you so much🥹❤️
