I overthink a lot becz of my past
Pichle realtion ki wajah se there is a lot of trust issues now
Sab sahi chl raha tha he is very gud n caring person and suddenly change he totally change I knw the reason behind this my Impatient , immaturity and childish behaviour .now he doesn’t talk to me nicely usually avoid me …I m not his priority anymore always I ask a stupid question make him upset n irritated becz of my overthinking or past trust issue .due to this suddenly I have lost my trust from him.i always thinking thay he might be cheat on me or blahhh n then my behaviour made him irritated I dnt want to loose him I really love him I want him back like we were .
Hey you should tell him this all things the way you feel about this and communicate with your partner it’s the key if you didn’t talk then things will not get better
Maine usko sab btaya hai and he also know everything ABT my feelings and the way I feel for him.he also feel for me pblm is that he get irritated by my childish or immature behaviour n this is only because of my overthinking I made him irritate n blaming him that he might found new one blahh blah yrr mujhe kuch smjh nhi aa raha ki mai apne realtion ko firse kaise sahi kru
Then girl I’m sorry to say he isn’t right for you bcz if he can’t accept you how you are and ignores you then it’s not good thing there are ppl out there you would adjust for you and would be happy to acept you how you are dear okay
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Ik it’s not something you would like to here but it’s the truth that’s best for you
okay overthinking always hurts ik and i do understand ur suitation and feelings because even im going through that even my past relationship was bad and it is affecting my present relationship even after 2 n half yrs
even i messed it up and my boyfriend took how much he could
but ukw even they through a lot n it is important for u to check up on him as well see on one will ever love u as ur it is bitter truth and it is not necessary to change for everyone but some times u have change certain things for ur loved ones and do thing from his perspective and dont ever expect him to love as ur
every human being have a certain limit tolerate everything okay and obvi he would have felt that even after he loving u if u doesnt trust him he certainly feel bad
soo if u want him to be in ur life make efforts
im not being completely on his side but try changing things make him feel good and dont start off sddenly go step by step
even after doing all these if he doesnt change it will be better if u move on
Thnks yaar 🙏❤️
Par jo things ab messed up ho gayi hai because of my childish behaviour
Mujhe aisa feel hota h ki Boht distance aa gya hai
Vo irritatie jaldi or pyaar or care kam show karta. Hai …n now these things hits me Hard and mjboor karti h fr overthink karne ko ki he want this realtion or not or he is compromising because of my happiness
These things make me upset now or theek bhi krna chahu to theek nhi ho pa raha
can i ask one thing
answer if u feel comfortable to tell to me
wt are the things ur doing to win him back
Till now nothing
then try doing know
make him feel important
be cheesy
be romantic
more than that find out what is his love language
there are many kind
when u find out
do something according to that
but dont do it all of sudden because it might making him feel uncomfortable n try to go more away
and top of all these u give time to urself, love yourself do something other than just thinking about him
n then if possible surpise him with something after the lockdown
important thing keep trying dont expect to show result as sson as u do
its gonna take time just be patient everything is gonna be better
all the best be strong
