Paul @pj1968
I never feel great anymore a 13 months ago my life changed I lost both my parent’s to terminal illnesses.
My mom was my best friend I stayed single for 20 years there financial situation was bad I never dated than when I lost them it destroyed me emotionally.
My whole family life is over now I have no relationship with my siblings over money than covid 19 has changed so many things for me I stay inside alone with no where to escape.
Now I’m having mental health problems I sit and think about compassion with others all the time I’m planning on a relocating to somwhere new and a new line a work where I can be nice to people.
hey,its going to be okay,I’m here to listen .
Hey u should save some money and see a therapist because u have been through a hard time and we can only imagine but u went through this . This can cause trauma and mental health problems . U should definitely seek help from a professional .
I’m sorry for your lost. I heard from different psychologists and psychotherapists that when we lose our family it normally takes 2 years (no longer) to recover emotionally. I wish you to be strong and if possible try to talk to a professional. Maybe a few sessions will help you to figure out what you need right now.
“Stay alone inside” is dangerous for our well-being, I know that from my own experience. Don’t try to be distant you don’t need to protect yourself (emotionally. in terms of covid, please, take care of yourself). Try to figure out ways and find connection to other people (if it’s not possible, you can always try it online, not the best solution but still works. You can even find professional psychologist on Skype/zoom - it’s getting very popular now).
You will find more new opportunities in life, believe that. And everything is going to get better.
Hey buddy, its going to get better, I promise. I know it sucks right now and nothing seems right but please hold on. There’s so much good to come. And we’re all here to listen to you whenever you need :)
We’re here for you. You’re going to get through this. Much love and power to you ❤
Also, where are you planning on relocating? Just curious :)
Paul @pj1968
Yah I’m trying to relocate to British Columbia next year there’s no one in my city for me now what family I have doesn’t involve me in there life anymore are family all went there own way.
I have the same situation as you do. I also relocated to another city. British Columbia is beautiful and hey, you’re getting a brand new chance to start all over, create a new personality for yourself. Forget the people who keep weighing you down. There’s not going to be anyone affecting your mental peace now. Isnt that great? :D
